Wow, that was a mouthful...

I'm not sure I understand it all though... This 'is' a 'lifestyle' for many. And for other's it is something they do occasionally. And as far a size of anything goes.... If someone is not attracted to whatever it is... they are not attracted. Are you saying everyone should just have occasional respectful sex with anyone who will have them? ...or who ever the spouse is of someone else no matter what they look like or act like????

...just wondering if you could explain your post a little more.

The prejudice on this site is worse than any other site I've been on. People here who call it a 'lifestyle' are fooling no one but themselves. As previous comments show, inevitably one or the other partner is disappointed and chooses to tolerate the rejection based on body size/cock size..damn just size..just to keep a psuedo relationship going...As one friend on here often says.."It's just sex..Relax.most of us don't want nor need to meet your friends or family.
Let's merely be sexy, people who party occasionally and respectfully.

It makes me sad when I read or hear someone say that their looks causes their spouse to have to take one for the team. I also looked at your pics...I saw a happy couple...and I esp. enjoyed seeing the pic of you singing. Do not ever feel like you cause your wife to have to take one for the team. I am sorry you feel that way. Your wife sees you as the sexiest, most handsome man in the world. Screw the rest of them.

Sweetart... I just looked at your profile... and was surprised to see ....how attractive you are!!! ...because of things you have said here in the forums. I don't understand why your looks are attracting such undesirable's for you to stop playing.
Do you mean every woman who 'is' attracted to 'you', has a very unattractive partner for your wife??? why is that your fault?? Besides the fact it's hard for everyone to find 4 way attractions, I'm not getting this...

I think you're very handsome... just sayin... ;)

She won't break"

I do see your point...but I can assure you, I will not break either. No bitch as tough as I am ever breaks :0).

Good for you Imanewdee, I've always struggled with my self image along with losing weight. Yes it pisses me off when couples or even just people in general get rude about how I look. After all a simple not interested is suffcient! Yes I'm trying to lose weight but not for anyone else for me and my desire to live a long healthy life with my kids!

It' not just bbw's that go through this, We have decided not to play anymore because the type of couples I am able to attract put my wife in a situation where she has to take one for the team.

My Mrs. has got some rude replies based on her being a BBW. It makes me want to tell the putz that he has NO IDEA just how much he is missing. BBW's are where it's at dude! She won't break and I swear.....you will never forget it!

I feel your pain cpl116350 !!! Myself , being not only a single male, but on the backside of 50 can certainly feel your pain sir !!! lol...But , I just keep smiling and trying..lol...Good luck to you sir!!!

When we decided to enter the lifestyle my BBW wife was certain she would never attract any men. What a surprise it has been to her that many men prefer BBW and most don't care. Over the past four years she's enjoyed an average of two to three new men each week and one to two visits by old friends who continue to come back. I am the one who has been disappointed. There are simply no couples or women who want to play with an old man. Tip to BBW .. good pictures are worth a 1000 words.