Boney Chicks aka Barbies with ugly dudes: Swingers Discussion 1738561011

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User Details are only visible to members.	Understand what you are saying, The only advice i can offer is to keep looking you will find those who mesh with you.. it is a big Pond. good luck
Burlingham NY			Username hidden (9213 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Wish this forum had an edit button.... I ment that as the years go by we are finding it harder to find others we can enjoy it with.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2188 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	looking.... I totally agree with you. The problem is that we both enjoy the lifestyle and both like to play. Sex and our sexuality and opendss about it is a very big part of who we are. friends of our once describe our lifestyle as sex and swinging was just our outlet for it. but it seem that as the years go by we are finding others that we both can enjoy it with, or a lest I am, she doesn't have that problem, and it's just not that fun when only one of us gets to play. And you are right , no one needs to have to justify their chooses , but it is interesting to discuss actions and motives of others we see in the lifestyle and also have the chance to vent our frustrations.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2188 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sweet- So Long as you are both happy , What another thinks Can be a moot point
Burlingham NY			Username hidden (9213 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Seduction I didn't see it as an insult. The pics were taken on a good day, dehydration does alot to make you look slimmer lol. Thank you very much for the complement. My biggest problem lies between my upper chest and waist line. When I was in my late teens and early twenties I was extremely into weight trainning. But then came marraige, a kid and an 80 hour work week. so now I have done so much damage to my body that no matter how much weight I try and loose or how much I and work out I will never get rid of the stretch marks, extra skin and man boobs. and being from the south with a true southern appetite and now living in New orleans, good food is my greatest foe. My wife on the other hand was stick thin and flat chested when we married and can eat what ever she wants and doesn't do any type of exercise except sex. Even now after gaining weight and going from an a cup to a c lookis 100 times better now than she has ever looked. So if some of you really want to know how some mishmatched couples come about their you go.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2188 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Should it matter if one's spouse is chipmunkish, Horse faced, has a burnt Amber hue, weighs 1 or 100 pounds over the norm ,or is under or Over the hill ? If they are not for you isn't it easy just to move on? The OP as well as most everyone has an idea of what or whome they wish to partake activities within this lifestyle with, SO Is there a right or wrong answer? I do not think it is Wrong for one to decide whom they swing with whether the decision is based upon race , color Creed, size, Hair color , religious or ethnic background. We all should enjoy the freedom to do as we please with whomever W/O having to justify ourselves
Burlingham NY			Username hidden (9213 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Seduction and hotbi. I want to say that I totally 100% agree with you. You both or extremely hot. Not just for our age group but any age. You should expect exactly what you bring to the table and not even consider accepting anything less, and that's the way it should be. We would never approach a couple like you with a sexual intent. we may fantasize lol. The reason for that is we are very honest with ourselves about who we are and the type of people that are most likely to to find us attractive. I'm a chipmunkish guy married to a hot woman. I'm lucky though she thinks I'm sexy just the way I am even after 30 years and not only that when she considers a playmate she looks for exactly the same things in him that she finds attractive about me,and if I were to kill over she would most likly look for a man just like me. She likes chubby guy's. That's the type of couples we look for, Slightly overweight male and a hwp to slightly thick female.(snmkpl you would be excally the type of couple we would look for, even when we play with single men the wife looks for men with the same physical characteristics as you) The problem we keep running into is when we are lucky enough to find a couple like we are looking for, (and they are far and few) The husband is always like great just what I,ve been looking for a hot woman who fines me attractive. The wife on the other hand is going damn this is what I have at home and makes it real clean almost for the start either by her words or actions that she is looking for a hot stud and I just don't measure up. Now I believe she has every right to feel that way, but it does make me wonder if she still finds her husband sexually attractive. I can't count the times we have been to a club or house party where the wives of mishmatched couples leave their husbands the go off to find some single stud to play with. While the poor husbands stands around wishing he was having as much fun as she is. I know this because they are the people we usually end up socialize with while everyone else is off playing. So now I start to wonder if not only don't these women still find their men attractive, but do they even care about their happiness. I want to say that no I don't believe that anyone should take one for the team, male or female, but if I look as good and sometimes better than her husband,I'm clean, dressed nice smell nice and always the gentleman. How would it be taking one for the team.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2188 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I just read that back and realize it sounds as if I'm defensive. That wasn't my intention at all. My intention was to say that attraction and looks have a lot to do w/ how you feel about someone rather than a standardized view of beauty. And for me, the more I feel about someone, the more attractive they are, esp. my husband. He keeps looking better to me. Gina
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User Details are only visible to members.	sometimes it is a matter of being thinner when you met, sometimes a "letting go." I don't know why that happens. My husband and I BOTH need to lose some pounds, together. We think we're a pretty good match though, look like we belong together. Could we look better? Sure. I was just looking at our wedding picture in our bedroom. I've improved, as far as hair and makeup, the way I dress, my teeth, etc. My confidence by far. My husband has also improved: hair, facial hair grooming, clothing, "cuteness." When I met him, I didn't go gaga over his looks, he was "average to nice" looking, but I wasn't looking for a relationship AT ALL. He was kind of geeky in a way, didn't wear jeans, etc. NOW he's actually hot! What changed? Not a lot, really. He still wears polos and cargo shorts a lot, but he's relaxed his look a bit, defers to my taste when he wants to, or when I ask him, and I do the same for him, although he'll admit I look good in everything (I adore this man). What has changed most is that I grow more attracted to him the more I love him. We're destined to be that cute little old couple you see who still flirt and hold hands. Do I wish he didn't have a belly? Sure. So does he. And I'm sure, even though he'll never say it b/c he's too kind, that he would like to see me drop some weight as well. We're working on it together. He's cute. Sometimes I think he's really hot. The things I like about most are his ruggedness, his eyes, his great arms, legs, back. The only thing about him that needs some work is his gut. Ok. I wish I could say that about myself, but there's more of me that needs work. He says I'm beautiful. And in his arms, I do feel beautiful, and in his eyes as well. It's a lot to do with what you see. It's a lot to do with how you feel. Gina
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User Details are only visible to members.	i don't know, i guess i am a bit different than most women. I like my men on the plump side and girls shaped more like me.Most of the couples that I come across are just the opposite. Hwp guy and overweight female. When we do get luckly enough to run across a mismatched couple like us,(chubby male hwp female)The female is usually chasing after young studs and doesn't care if she leaves her hubby hanging in the process.
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