Being BBW is Not Cool: Swingers Discussion 1904471071

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User Details are only visible to members.	Damn, so much for my impersonating Santa and getting the ladies to come sit on Santa's lap...........
Burleson TX			Username hidden (2030 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	i know, wtf. because I choose to look a certain way I'm hung up and shallow. Seriously.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23750 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Somewhat to scandal's point...It really doesn't matter what others think of you. If it does you may need some help overcoming years of bullying/discrimination. However, it is what you think of yourself that make you an attractive person to others. Those who are hung up on HWP usually are not those I would be interested in meeting. Nothing is sexier than a woman with self-confidence and comfort with her sexuality.
Harrisburg PA			Username hidden (66 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	oh no, the fitness forum is there for everyone....to aid in keeping you motivated! I understand what you mean. I am on steroids, and prob will be on them for some time. They are notorious for increasing your appetite...esp. mind for sweets. I am watching what I eat incredibly carefully. You may want to consider starting a consistent work our plan :o)
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23750 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	lost, i do not do ANYTHING consistently!!!! LOL i'm also on medications that are well known to be 'weight gain' meds ( i gained 40 lbs in the first 3 months with one of them) and have killed my metabolism and effected my energy level to a disturbing degree. so for me eating a healthy low calorie diet and moderate exercise (which i can reasonably get my body to do consistently) only keeps me at a 'possible' maintaining weight, never a loss. so when i realllly do try hard, and get NO results... it infuriates me and i give up. and the fitness forums scare me... lol!
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2999 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	kind, do you exercise consistently? I won't lie...I am he laziest heathen on the planet....which I have to stop being because keeping active is important in joint health, and so I have to do all I can to counter act the RA. Anyways. You need to do a consistent work out program. Number one, working out makes you feel "tighter", and better. Muscle is very important, the more muscle you have the more efficiently your body works...and it speeds up your metabolism. Go into the fitness threads...we have on hand a few professionals who really will help you. Its about health, not weight.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23750 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Rick, when your wife 'was' on this diet, was she losing weight at the same rate as you? (or close to it?) 2 years ago this month my husband was diagnosed with diabities. he got so freaked out over the thoughts of 'losing his feet' it immediatly drove him into an obsessive cardio regiment and strict calorie intake and also worked with a dietician. (which Ins. covered btw) "I" cooked and measured all the meals, and did as much cardio as i could... ...he lost 68 pounds in 6 months and has beed diabities free since. I lost 4, (yes, FOUR!) ...and ...gave up! have tried different diets since, but my metabolism is so different than his, it is too discouraging sometimes to even try again. ...just wondering if that's happening to her too.
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2999 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Dante....Scandle is spot on. I lost alot of weight...and it was not until I bought a size 28W, looked in the mirror and said okay shells, you have a problem...that things changed. You have to be very selective in how you bring up a subject like women's weight...because we rarely hear health...we interpret such things as "you are fat". Well, I do anyways. Like scandle said, living by example is usually very good. Esp. if you cook some of the meals in your house, incorporate healthy cooking. Food is not bad...it is often how we prepare and eat it that makes good food bad. Salads...main offender. A great, healthy meal. Until we top it with fat dressings and bacon. Lead by example :0)
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23750 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	welcome to the forums, R_Dante! In my experience there is no way to make someone else choose to lose weight. They either want to or they don't, they're either committed to the process or they're not, and pushing them to lose weight when they don't want to just causes stress and resentment in the marriage, on both sides. Lead by example. Even if she doesn't decide to emulate you, you will feel and look better. Do it for you, not for anyone else. Your profile states pretty strongly that you two are into BDSM. You may have more luck finding possible playmates by writing to some of the people who post there. If your wife posts there and gets a kind of conversation going, she may be more comfortable reaching out to others with similar interests. Good luck!
Sheboygan Falls WI			Username hidden (7067 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	lost, i have not come that far yet. lol! i know for a fact i am an awesome 'person' and are blessed by more 'good' friends and relationships than anyone could ask for. my body type: eh, not so much still, ...but working on it! :) we did go to our first club a few weekends ago and it did bring alot of perspective to me tho... i was worried that ALL the gals there would be 'thin little hotties' (and some were) but many (maybe even mostly) were maybe my size, many heavier, or curvier, etc... and yes, my husband and i both thought MANY were very sexy! especially if they looked very happy and friendly! it was really surprising and good for me to see that!! besides the fact that 'this' has not been my body most of my life and i feel like i'm in someone elses, i also think i am the heaviest (or close to it) of all my friends, so that may have alot to do with my high degree of self consciousness too... i think once we spend more time with people in the lifestyle, all shapes and sizes, i will start to get over it and really believe it. :)
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