Being BBW is Not Cool: Swingers Discussion 1904471021

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Being BBW is Not Cool: Swingers Discussion 1904471021

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User Details are only visible to members.	saveandwin i never said anyone has to have sex with me, i said i think its sad that there are people who wont even bother to TALK to me cause we maybe to big or not there cup of tea, you just said you can talk to and be friendly with people your not attracted to for sex,and enjoy the friendship but dont want sex. that is my point i e mail people to just to chat and i get slammed when i dont even say the word sex, So some here think that if no sex will be had because the person is not for them then you cant even chat? how is that not rude? i have walked up to people at a meet and greet, NOT a SEX party, but a meet and greet, and been treated this way, they wont even talk to us past hi, how is that me asking about sex? but i feel i am banging my head against a wall here, We/i don't like to have sex in general with people who you can see there ribs, when there not sucking things in, that my dog weighs more then, BUT i still will talk to them and laugh and be friends. Then at a house party a few months ago, i met a woman who is a long distance runner, shes very thin and almost no meat on the bone, we sat in a hot tub chatted, and then ended up playing, now if i had kept with my idea that shes way to skinny, and i should not even consider her, we never would have had fun, much less a new friend, why is it so hard to understand that by not even answering, and ignoring people in person is rude and one never knows, you may not find a fuck friend, but you may find a very nice friend by just talking to them
Holland MI			Username hidden (58 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Mrs sav, You made the point perfectly. A good example: After read yall's profile we would sound like a 99.99% perfect match, as far personality , and our goals. But physically I not your type, And I wouldn't waste your time or ours writing to yall. guess what I'm ok with that... Though I may just have to work really hard and lose 40 lbs before we make our trip to Al this spring. lol
Dallas TX			Username hidden (2225 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	hmmm.. i dont really think that's shallow. not here anyway. in real life maybe, but i don't have sex with my greatest dearest friends, so they're physical appearance means much less to me than the person the are... may i ask you, if you were to look at a profile, and for some reason you're not turned on in any way (not just sexual) or even opposite, you're actually turned off. ....do you think you would/should still chat and/or meet with that person? ...and do you even have the time to do that? i'm sort of runnning out of time trying to get to know the people i am very attracted too! which by the way, with some had started from liking their profile and personality via email first, cause some i did see their pics later) ...not that i recommend that. gee.... are we still talking about being overweight and feeling like everyone should give us a chance inspite of it???
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2999 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	" no what i am wanting is that people stop making a judgment call on if we are compatible without even talking to someone, compatibility is way different then attracted to," This is a sex site if I'm not attracted on some levels I'm not having sex with you. I also would hope that if someone is not attracted to me they too would refuse to have sex with me. We can be friendly, exchange pleasantries and share some laughs at a party but if you don't physically stir me I really see no point in taking things further. You mention attitude as being an issue for some people who are overweight and yet I don't see your attitude being any different. You're unhappy that people do not want to have sex with you sometimes and base that on being a BBW, how is your attitude any different? the reality is fat, thin, short or tall, handsome, average, smart or well spoken 90% of the people you contact aren't interest in having sex with you. Noone should be made to feel bad for rejecting you any more than others should make you feel bad. When we decline an invitation to meet I NEVER give a reason why I think we're incompatible. Sometimes it is their looks, sometimes I think based on their profile ;they're not what we're looking for, sometimes they have a great profile and look hot and we're still not interested for whatever reason. Stop wasting energy focusing on what others do or don't do and focus on what makes you happy. Any one who refused to meet you did you a favor and saved you valuable time......don't give that time back by worrying about WHY they didn't want to meet. Everyone has trouble meeting the "right" people , that's just how it is. If you're happy with yourself and with each other move on and move forward. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4443 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I never said people cant have there own thoughts and wants, i never said people can do what they want, i was not crying cause people wont play with us, ( some do ), what i was saying is its sad that someone looks at us and make up there mind who we are and what we are and everything about us just from a pic without getting to know us, nothing not a chat, and that's shallow and sad, but your right to each there own, and if people want to be shallow and rude i guess they have to live with themselves not me.
Holland MI			Username hidden (58 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I guess I am a throwback. your not a throw back, you are who you are, and you like what you like, That's the point. and there is no use complaining because other people don't find us attractive for what ever reason. As far as being over weight, looks are the least of the problem. Because of my weight fluctuation, I have high blood pressure, type 2 diabetes, heart problems, joint problems and Problems sleeping and these are just the ones I am aware of. Granted some of my problems come from smoking, But if i quit smoking I'll put on 40 to 50 lbs, been there done that the last time i quit smoking I went from 220 lbs to 300 lbs in less than 4 months.. so the bottom line is that looking good is the least of the benefits of losing weight.
Dallas TX			Username hidden (2225 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	i'm a little confused here from the last few posts. it's obvious there are alot of obese people, (especially in the US) and yes it is sad for MANY different reasons. but i disagree with Cum4meagin when he said "I have little tolerance for people who allow themselves to become obese, or thick, or with a little extra padding, or whatever term they invent to make obesity acceptable" .....of course you're allowed to have your tolerances, but i do not think that a few extra pounds is the same as obese on any level. NO one can tell someone what reasons they should have to have sex with someone. whether attraction to personality trumps someone's physical features, or if physical features are way more important than personality. everyone's different, entitled to be different, and hopefully finds exactly what they are seeking. not everyone is open minded with their preferences, and that's as okay as is everything else, not just in the lifestyle, but life in general. it doesn't matter who tolerates that...
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2999 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I am married to a BBW. I prefer ladies with curves. I like as they say" Cushion for the pushin". LOL I love a voluptuous lady, I guess I am a throwback.
Dayton TX			Username hidden (1 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Cum4 I have to a all that agree with you, It's not the 5'4 blond spinners fault that I'm over weight, It's mine and mine alone. Whats makes it worse I know how to lose weight (My dad was a pro athlete and semi pro bodybuilder) and Have done it 4 times in the last 40yrs. I just like to eat and am kinda lazy. Oh and my skinny B*&^h wive can eat what ever she wants and never gain a pound. Now I will say we have been turned down many times by people who weren't all that, but thought they were, these are the same people who later complain no one wants to play with them, Again to thine self be true.
Dallas TX			Username hidden (2225 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I don't my friend 5'9' 240 to 250 depending on the day is not exactly hwp. And I never said my wife was fat, She's just the opposite, very hwp, you could even call her athletic. And as far as attitude goes, I'm not the one whining that not one will play with us because I'm fat.( I actually have nothing to whine about at all, we get plenty of play time, because we don't waste our time with people who don't find us attractive) Come on man get real, This is ultimately about sexual pleasure, And having sex with people you find attractive, granted attraction is in the eye of the beholder, but to thy own self be true. I'm not going to waste my time writing a couple that looks like they just walked off the stage of a body building competition. Even though i can make my man boobs bounce up and down like a body builder, because even bi women find hairy tits kinda disgusting.
Dallas TX			Username hidden (2225 post)

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