Being BBW is Not Cool: Swingers Discussion 1904471011

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User Details are only visible to members.	some people are just asses, we cant change that just ignore them, I like everyone who treats me good, we are all here to have fun. Bruce
York PA			Username hidden (150 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	As a strong n proud BBW i can understand the pain of some who feel rejected...but i say if they dont like my fluff its all good...in the end they most likely could not handle me anyways lmao
Adams Center NY			Username hidden (1 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	If I am not attracted to you do you seriously think I should sit and talk with you knowing that I am not going to find your personality so great that it will influence what I find sexy, sensual, and what I desire to have sex with. I find that people who say well they arent really my type but we talked and their personality was so great it changed my mind to be wishy washy,, something that I am far far from..I mean if I was just looking to have sex with out any care for what I prefer I would just go to the local bar and grill. I am here because I can find what I DO seek, want, and prefer. Here I shouldnt have to feel the guilt of having to be polite and politically correct. This is sex and I know how and what I want.
Spring TX			Username hidden (1852 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Making and looking for friends is one thing. Looking for sex partners is another. I think in the profile and email section of this site, its more geared toward sex partners for most people. Not all. But most. Youre basically here looking at a menu and seeing what you want to bring to bed. We would gladly chat with anyone who emailed us to a degree. If someone outside our preferences emails us to chat about something other than getting together for sex. We would be fine with that. Someone clearly outside our interest, who is looking for sex. Honestly, we would not carry on conversation with them if their intention was to change our mind. No. We wouldn't meet incompatible people the way we would compatible people. Thats just not what we are looking for. With that said. Take the forums here for example. We all interact in conversation, and its not about the nuts and bolts of meeting for why we are all here. So we would gladly meet anyone (well most anyone..lol) on the forums if we were in their area and they wanted to hang out or go to dinner. But these are people we (I moreso) have already opened up a dialog with and chat with daily on a platonic friendly basis.
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I'll comment to Mr Sav how rude some women was to me and I'd say to him "what the fuck, I didn't want to have sex with her I merely compliment her dress!" go figure! That's funny, My wife says the same thing all the time. She loves giving compliments and gets the same reaction all the time. So she'll be glad to know she's not the only one. We are like y'all when it comes to the friend thing, yes we like to be able to enjoy the social part of people we play with and be able to relax and enjoy their company, But friendship is not our goal. If it happens that's great, but if it doesn't, I all ready have a best friend. I always say "it,s easy to get us naked, your going to have to work a lot harder to get us to call you friend" I have learned from experience not to spend to much time socializing before determining if there is a chance of things going further, or you'll find yourself standing alone in an empty while everyone else has already paired off and headed upstairs.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2197 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sweet , We would gladly meet you if you were ever in AL . Frankly in some ways I feel I know you already having watched you post. The difference is to me the forums are like meeting others at a social club. We chat, we hang out we get to know each other, we become friends . I'm not on the forums "looking" for sexual partners and thus most profiles of people I chat with I don't even bother to open their profile and look at their photos. Their age, weight and preferences have no baring on conversing in the forums. Outside of the forums and social events our goal isn't friendships and thus when local people contact us and want to meet and we don't feel we're compatible for whatever reason we do not invest time in A) misleading them B) working towards a friendship or C) just hanging out . We like most people have busy lives , we are primary here to fulfill our sexual fantasies. Any friendships formed are a bonus but if we know already we aren't attracted, find no common ground or just getting a bad vib we aren't going to waste our time or theirs. For the record I do not think that because you are not Mr Adonis people won't talk to you. We go to a lot of socials and we have the same issues. People are hanging with "their" group. Some feel that any exchange of pleasantries must mean sex is the goal. Silly YES, but it is a fact. many times I'll comment to Mr Sav how rude some women was to me and I'd say to him "what the fuck, I didn't want to have sex with her I merely compliment her dress!" go figure! On the flip side I too am very cautious at a social gathering to not send the wrong message and be "too" friendly sometimes because sometimes if you're "too nice" you just can't get rid of them. It is what it is. They say sex complicates things and there is no doubt about it lol. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4091 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"Depends on what you call a few extra pounds." ....20 lbs is overweight. it is not obese. i don't want to get into weight charts and BMI numbers. extra weight is unhealthy and often unattractive. sometimes people will be rude about it. sometimes they wont. that is universal. not just here. ...maybe they just never learned manners. i'm sorry it's affecting you so. sweettart.... good luck to you!! i'm doing the same here. its not easy but any pound lost is worth it. i'd like to live longer too... :)
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	but i do not think that a few extra pounds is the same as obese on any level. Depends on what you call a few extra pounds. According to most weight charts I should weigh 175lbs, I weight 245 right now that makes me obese, And yes being overweight is not cool, no cooler than heart disease, diabetes,breathing problems,liver disease,digestive problems,being exhausted after walking up a few flights of stairs,feeling like your are going to pass out after bending over to tie your shoes, ED, and dying before your time. I just lost a dear friend last month to a heart attack, he was only 52, and overweight. that and this back and forth conversation has made me determined to lose the weight and get back in shape. I have way to much to live for.I use to joke that my long term retirement plan was death, but after having a small heart attack last may, that shit ain't funny anymore. I have an 18 month old grandson with whom I wish to experienced every there is to being papa, and if I don't stop and make some really big changes I 'll be lucky to last another year.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2197 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	naughty i understood your last post a little better than the few in the middle... i think that the 'majority' of people here on a swinging website, are not here to make friends. i like friendly conversation anywhere, so i have had many wonderful chats with people i am not attracted to. some may not. i guess it is the same at meet and greets too. majority are looking for playmates, and may not want to waste their time with anything else. why do they have to be rude? ...i have no answer. not sure there is one. why is anyone ever rude to others??? just seek those like yourself, like you already do, and don't worry about the others...
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	kinddragon well i thought we were but i am being told i am nuts to think making friends is a good thing, so i will shut up on this topic now and let people keep making judgment calls on people based only on what someone looks like, i have 300-400 friends in the life style that we have met over the years, MOST we don't play with they are just friends who we hang with, go to dinner with, hang at there house with, even go to swingers parties with, but don't have sex with them, guess what we all met one time or another through the life style, just to see what they were like in person, had i said oh hell no i am not going there not my type i would be short so many awesome friends and that's a sad thought. We have shared so many fun and sad times with so many of them, i am glad there in my life, because its called a life style not SEX life. just IMO
Hamilton MI			Username hidden (57 post)

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