Bad meet greet: Swingers Discussion 1095671041

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User Details are only visible to members.	new people and places can be hard. specially when trying to get know vibe and feel of the people there. In our group we really strive to pull new people into the banter and chat. though some that have been seem to be bound and determined above and aloof. seems those people never come back. I like to think i have one of most friendly safe playgroups in DFW, So Curious if ya ever get down this way give us a shout i would love to get in your comfort zone. ~Wink~
Hutchins TX			Username hidden (188 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Yeah going out is hard, I have to admit we are usually one of the ones who stand around in groups and only talking to the people we know. Its not because we are stuck up and don't want to meet new people it because we are shy and its hard for us to meet new people. Sometime we will go out without the big group just to try to force ourselves to meet new people and talk to someone new. I find that most people are waiting for people to talk to them first, so my suggestion would be try the meet and greet again. When you go sit near a couple and introduce yourself and start talking. I have found in this lifestyle that most people are very friendly and are willing to chat. Mrs Voya
Detroit MI			Username hidden (418 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Parties, swing clubs, etc., can get a bit "clique-y" sometimes, but please don't let one experience put you off. There are a lot of couples that are really nice, and great to meet. We do see that happen though, where people stand around in a circle of people that they know well, and don' venture out of their comfort zones. Try different ones on the events list for your area. Please don't think it's a matter of "not being attractive enough." Maybe a lot of the other couples were feeling the same way. Frequently, I am one of the oldest, and probably also heaviest women at a party (not always, and so what). Sometimes Dan and I will just be talking to each other, but if we start flirting with each other, kissing, whatever (depends on if it's a public place or private), then that usually starts the ball rolling, so to speak. It's hard to mingle when you're new. I would also suggest you checking out the events and looking at the profiles listed on the who's attending part...email some of them and tell them that you're new and ask if they would mind introducing you to some of the regulars. Most experienced swing couples truly enjoy helping a new couple meet others, and answering questions and taking them under their "wing" a bit. If they can't, then sometimes they will point you to someone who can. Also, email the administrators of the groups...they're usually very helpful. Good luck, and don't get discouraged. Gina and Dan
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