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Bikergirl (dude), thanks for your compliment and your thoughts. Since starting this thread I've achieved greater acceptance of my body and am seeing my physical appearance in a more positive light, as my husband and others do.

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Thanks Kinddraggon....And Sweettart....Ain't that the way of it for some people? I even look at a Little Debbie and I gain 5 lbs !!!! LOL


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Scandle....First off let me say this is the male half writing (Bikerdude). Secondly....I took a peek at the pictures on your profile. I gotta say.....from what I can see, your quite sexy!

I learned a long time ago from my better half that I could tell her until I turned blue in the face that I think she's a knockout, beautiful, sexy, desirable, all that and a bag of chips....and it don't mean a damn thing. It only matters what SHE thinks and how SHE sees herself.

Sugar....none of us, not male or female is EVER going to look like we did when we were in our youth. That's not saying one can't look damn good for someone in there....say....50's. There isn't one darn thing wrong with wanting to look good....as long as it's realistic. A 50 something year old Mom of a few children ISN'T going to look like she did before she had children. That's why Doctors invented the "Abdominoplasty", and even then it isn't going to be the same.

Loosing weight and getting fit is a GOOD thing. Do it because YOU want to....not because of someone else. Get fit because YOU want to feel good about yourself and to hell with what anyone else might think! Gaining weight didn't happen over night and it's NOT going away over night either.

Your sexy....Keep going because it's what YOU want!

Hope this helps....just my two cents.

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mcandher, thank you for the open invitation, and may I offer the same to you if you ever head to the Milwaukee area. I loved your profile, by the way!

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I would like to think that if your in this area you have no issues with BBW. But for the record not all men are opposed to "real sized" women. But I would imagine I am preaching to the choir in the area.

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Happy to say I've taken some of the advice given here by buying pants that fit well and make me feel great! The trick to escaping being hyper-critical of myself is to avoid looking in the mirror to critique my curves. I wore the new jeans at a hotel takeover this weekend (the public areas of the hotel were a little cold) along with a very sexy bra. I FELT sexy and got a lot of very nice interest from the people who appreciate a woman with my physique.

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We were watching the grammy.s and I said to my wife who would be a better fuck Adele of lady gaga and then I said who has a better body and she said gaga then I asked who has prettier and the answer was Adele.. To me curvy women are sexier than thin rails with no tits

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Wow I hear this from naughty all the time and I don't consider her a bbw. She is perfect in my eyes. Scandels your picture look great. You look good to me.

And rdy I know you are hot. Wink. I know this is something woman opsess over but we all have flaws and imperfections.

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Lady K, I think body image is actually much more accurate of a term for my challenge, as you suggest. My self image is pretty good, having explored and developed a number of positive traits over the years that have nothing to do with my body image. It makes no sense that I would aspire to having the body of someone with different heritage, genes, life experiences, metabolism, and much younger age.

You are right, too about throwing out the old clothes! I'm not a fashion maven by any means, but since I tend to wear clothes out before replacing them (or my butt may have stretched them, to be honest), I probably ought to just go through the closet again and cull out the old junk.

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As always Ms. G, you are a wise woman. I have stopped beating myself down about my body. And like you, there is no critic harder on me than the woman that looks at me in the mirror. I am ridiculous. My body beat stage IV cancer and battles RA...and I get pissy because my jeans feel snug. Seriously, what a prick I am to myself!!! Thanks for beating cancer...but can you NOT be tight in a pair of Silvers?? Actually, now that I just wrote that I realize even more what an idiiot I can be LOL. Love who you are. We can all improve. Life is an evolution. But love who you are today. So what...the number on the back of your jeans is higher than you'd like. Work on it...and love who you are today. Trust me. If you do not appreciate the joys in your life today.......you may miss out on everything. Because today may never be tomorrow. And if you spend every day hoping you look good tomorrow, tomorrow...you will miss out on some wonderful todays.


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