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Created by: Scandle Original Starting post for this thread:
Ever since having children my body has been heavier than I would like. Since hitting my 50's, I've gained even more weight but with our participation in the lifestyle, I am making more of an effort to get rid of it. Yes, it's hard and slow work, with exercising more and eating less being the basic rule of thumb. I'm making some headway, but get discouraged when I discover that my efforts are not working as much as I imagine they are. When I try to wear the slacks I fit into 7 years ago, my happy bubble bursts and brings me back to reality. Patience is not my strong suit, unfortunately, but that's for another thread! Do you go, or have you gone through the same difficulties? How did you get past it? I'm doing my best to keep a positive outlook and I don't want to give up.

Created by: Scandle
Original Starting post for this thread:

Ever since having children my body has been heavier than I would like. Since hitting my 50's, I've gained even more weight but with our participation in the lifestyle, I am making more of an effort to get rid of it. Yes, it's hard and slow work, with exercising more and eating less being the basic rule of thumb. I'm making some headway, but get discouraged when I discover that my efforts are not working as much as I imagine they are. When I try to wear the slacks I fit into 7 years ago, my happy bubble bursts and brings me back to reality. Patience is not my strong suit, unfortunately, but that's for another thread! Do you go, or have you gone through the same difficulties? How did you get past it? I'm doing my best to keep a positive outlook and I don't want to give up.

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User Details are only visible to members.	In my experience Sassy, you don't really need to "market" yourself. A handful of pics will suffice. The guys/couples that are into it, know that they're into it. If they come across your profile, they'll let you know. If you're looking for a more aggressive approach, check out some of the groups in your area. There's bound to be one that fits you.
Toledo OH			Username hidden (1055 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	SSS -- welcome to the Forums! You'll find Piitsburgh a very BBW friendly swinging community. Feel free to email me directly
Pittsburgh PA			Username hidden (4061 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	SSS, welcome to the forums. I think you have a good start marketing yourself. Get involved in the forums in other threads and be yourself. Your piictures are fine and I wouldn't over do it. Going to M&G and parties is a great way to start. When it comes to SMs, just a word of caution......not everything is to believed. Have fun and go at your own pace and have fun. Or, you could spend a lot of time here at the Jersey shore for the mext 6 months, lol.
Brick NJ			Username hidden (9707 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	So I am new to this and enjoy it...but I am bigger girl...how do you (for a lack of better terms) market yourself???
Burgettstown PA			Username hidden (2 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	hahahaha! The good thing about me is, arguments tend to be very quick LOL
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23665 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"I was going to tell the fake looking bitch to fuck herself...but im on this trying to be nice kick." ---- how's this 'trying to be nice kick' working out for ya? LOL! I'm a very friendly person, but not very assertive at first besides a smile. If a female does not make any sort of eye contact with me, I just make believe she's not there like she's doing to me. ty Scandle! ;) I get the whole thing if it starts in emails, I've been talkin to a reallyyyy nice guy since we met at a M&G and I know it will be easy when we meet. I'm sure it can be just like that with a female too. ;)
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User Details are only visible to members.	"Well I don't know about anyone else, but Scandal's last post give me wood. :) Bikerdude" Thanks, man! Glad you liked it. ;-)
Sheboygan Falls WI			Username hidden (6980 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	My wife has always had a hard time flirting with women,Even after all these years, And when she does try to complement a women the rarely say thank you and almost never return the complement. Especially when we go to the clubs,one of the reasons we are sick of going to swing clubs. non lifestyle women tend to be much more respective,Hell vanilla women even tend to be more receptive to me flirting with them than lifestyle women. She never was one to hang out with the girls, she's was always more of a tomboy.And finds it much more rewarding to flirt with men." OMG thank you. I agree with this so much. Esp. about lifestyle chicks thinking the fucking world revolves around their pussy. Went to a ls club and was in the restroom, washing my hands. Im a polite person and I always look for things to compliment because i know it feels good. I looked at her, smiled and said thank goodness, its Saturday! She did not smile, nor did she look up. She said "yes it is." I was going to tell the fake looking bitch to fuck herself...but im on this trying to be nice kick. Ugly ass bitch, genetics robbed her ass.........acting ugly does not help her out a bit.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23665 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Well I don't know about anyone else, but Scandal's last post give me wood. :) Bikerdude
Parkersburg WV			Username hidden (40 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	My wife has always had a hard time flirting with women,Even after all these years, And when she does try to complement a women the rarely say thank you and almost never return the complement. Especially when we go to the clubs,one of the reasons we are sick of going to swing clubs. non lifestyle women tend to be much more respective,Hell vanilla women even tend to be more receptive to me flirting with them than lifestyle women. She never was one to hang out with the girls, she's was always more of a tomboy.And finds it much more rewarding to flirt with men.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2197 post)

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TOPIC: BBW and Self-Image