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TOPIC: Are there real people on SLS that are after real people or just game players
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We are similar in approach to you, Jean, only it is I (Bill) who tends to make the first contact. Regardless, Amy has vetted anyone I choose to contact and needs to be sure that she's happy with what I send. I'm just more outgoing than she, and that's what works for us.

I think a nice little "Hey, noticed in your profile that..." or something else that indicates that you've read the profile is a very good way to get someone's attention. We do that, too. Good first impressions can only be made on the first try, right? :)

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As the female partner of this couple, my husband always insists that I make the first contact. We get a few responses, but not many. His reasoning behind it is to make sure I've read the profile and am comfortable contacting these couples. I always comment about something they've written in their profile and sign my name first at the bottom of the email. We've met some great couples and some not so great, but that just goes with the lifestyle.

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I think there is a "politeness" sometimes where if a woman makes the least bit of a move, a guy will jump all on it and that might not be what she wants right away. Then again, if a man comes on too strongly, he is seen as pushy, and not a gentleman.

For us, I like to hear a compliment or two, and then a confident man, assertive rather than aggressive. Dan really likes it when a women doesn't play those "come here/ no, wait" games and just knows what she wants. One of his favorite swing friends is a lovely women who just takes him by the hand and says, "come on..." and leads him to the bedroom. Life should be so easy, huh?

Gina

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We are a couple in ohio as our profile reads are interested in the reality of real HONEST people both partners committed to getting together not just the male it seems that women never make the frst move Why is that? Any help or takers

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