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OK i did not read all of the posts here ( sorry i dont have that much time hahah ) but i have always wondered about the " HWP " thing, just what is HWP?? and who decides that? i would think and have found out from people that its a subjective thing, what one person thinks is HWP is not what someone else does, so how does one determen whats HWP? ( now this is not a attack on skinny women ) but to me if a woman is 5'8' and weighs 100lb's that's not any more hwp then a woman who is 5'8' and 270, so again i ask who and what decides this??

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My wife is what some would call a BBW, i call her SEXY and hot, as do many of the men that ask her to play at house parties we go to, me? i am willing to play with any size women, as long as they are nice, good personality and fun to be around, i prefer the bigger women,and dont chase the skinny women, but i am not a snob on either side of the fence, but if i had to pick between 2 women same personality but ones a BBW? i am going with the BBW just my preference

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Well thank ya, Sexus.

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Cool Girls Rock! Fun girls rock! Sexy girls rock! Tiny girls rock, big girls rock...

It's very much an individualized thing, as you saw and know now from experience. And I think going through your fight gives you a different perspective on people all around, with no time for bullshitters and fakes and flakes and mean people, no matter what their size.

Glad you posted.

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I have always been attracted to tiny, thin, tight women. My last GF was a size 0, 105 lbs, blonde and gorgeous. She was the love of my life and we were even talking about marriage. She passed away 2 1/2 years ago......crushing me and my heart in the process.

I recently ran into an old childhood friend. The guys all had a girl like this, I'm sure. A somewhat "tomboy". She played baseball and football with all us guys. Rode BMX and raced, most times beating the boys. I always just thought of her as a friend and not a potential sexual partner because she wasn't my "type". Running into her this time, everything was so comfortable. Like a couple of old buddies who ran into eachother at a ball game. However, now, we were adults. I was looking at her as a person with whom I've shared a lot of fun times. When we slept together, WHOA!!! That lady has skills and REALLY loves to have sex. The next morning, I wastelling her that I lost 55 pounds from chemo and that I was only 145 pounds. She began to laugh and said...."Damn, I outweigh you by 40 pounds." I looked at her and couldn't believe she was that heavy, but she was. Yet she was still one of the sexiest women I've ever slept with.

Big Girls Rock!!!!!

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Deb, he sounds like a good guy. And why have we not met you yet? I'm thinking we'll be hosting a party this spring...

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Very well said Gina. We all need love, appreciation, compliments, and all the things that go with being a human being. I was very large (FAT) at one time and my hunnybunny loved me then and told me later he never realized I was fat til after I lost weight. You have to love a man like that. Debbie

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As a woman who was only considered a "stick" from birth to about age 8 or 9 ("If you don't eat you're gonna dry up and blow away...), I can say that I hate that comment. "I might hurt her." "I don't want a stick, I want a real woman." "Real women have curves."

We are ALL real women! Just because we are different weights and heights and sizes and shapes does not make any one woman less a woman than any other. It's what us "fat women" say to make ourselves feel better about our fat. Neither type woman, fat nor skinny, should use name calling and put downs and spite to try to make herself feel better. There is room in this world, AND in this swinging world, for ALL types of people. Stop cutting each other. Most of us do it to ourselves quite enough.

If I fit your attraction preferences, Yay! If I don't, that's fine too. No one has to resort to name calling. It's petty and it's juvenile and I have no time or inclination for it. If I don't like something about myself, then it's up to me to change it. No amount of justification from anyone who is a similar size is going to help me, and neither is no amount of criticism from anyone else. It's what we think of ourselves that really counts.

Gina

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Repost of my earlier comment:

"Are any men interested in a woman who is an actual woman and not a stick?"

So.... anyone who's not significantly overweight isn't an actual woman?

"Why do most men get turned off just because I have a few extra pounds?"

Some do, some don't. Those that do, so be it.

"Is today's society that close minded that everyone must be anorexic or spend thousands to look like an airbrushed model out of a magazine?"

Absolutely not. If this were true, 99.9% of women would be repulsive to everyone.

I'm frankly tired of this last bit. I'm tired of women acting like there are only 2 kinds of women - overweight ones and perfect ones. Who the hell is telling you this?

If I were 280 pounds, and complained that my huge beer gut turned women off (don't lie and say it wouldn't), whining that we all don't look like Calvin Klein models and women aren't fair to us etc etc, how far would that go?

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Stick chicks? really?

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