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I have curves and I never have trouble attracting men. I prefer being with a man who also has some meat on him! Soft and cuddly is a turn-on. Hello ya!!!

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I have to say I agree with ANN20. People of any arrangement of physical attributes can be damned sexy (or not) mainly by how they handle themselves. It is mostly between the ears. If you are having fun and really enjoying yourself, the chances are much better that those around you are, too. But people just do have certain preferences, some things just do or don't turn them on. Sometimes it isn't even a specific attribute you can write down. For example, I once met someone who reminded me a LOT of someone I had a bad experience with in the past (not swinging related). No matter how hard I tried, I really couldn't get aroused by her, she was an instant turn-off to me and it wasn't anything specific about her except she was a spitting image (to include a similar voice) of someone I really didn't like.

Personally, I don't have a "type" that specifically turns me on or off, it is all about that specific person. A perfect knockout could be a turnoff if she has a bad attitude or it seems she is being pushed into something she doesn't really enjoy doing. Some of the most amazing sex I have ever had has been with larger women. They make the rockin' world go round!

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olive oyl?

Philadelphia PA
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Bah..I can't type....

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For me it doe spent matter, it's more about a connection. Best sex I ever had was with a lady with curves, she knew how to use them.

Armorel AR
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Thank you "Lady". Nice seeing your sexy self as well.

Vineland NJ
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Nice to see your sexy self out here Mario!

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Very well put, Ann. I couldn't agree more.

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What all of this comes down to is the attatude confidence you have in yourself . Enjoy who you are accept what other people think say weather it is wrong or right . you should never be upset by what another person prefers .. There are plenty of very nice non judgmentle people on sls , The rest you should just dismiss because you would not want to be with someone like that anyway . When i first started on sls i was 45lb heavier very self concious about it . I soon came to realise that there are a lot of men who do not care about your weight they want real honest fun people.you have to gou out meet , go to some meet greets . when people get to know you it is much easier to make a connection rather then trying to over an email . I finally became comfortable with my self and have become a very happy person . Selfconfidence is the main key once you have it the sky is the limit !!! you should never have to loose weight for any one ....but in my case i have found that when i am happy feel good about myself i loose weight without trying it has still been coming off .....so the moral of this story..........embrace who you are love yourself !!!!! The problems will fade away then . judgmental people are not worth your time any way . Hugs 4 u It will all work out

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Damned funny! Can't help but be amused by men commenting about not enjoying larger females. Apparently, they have not yet realized that ATTITUDE, PERSONALITY, AND A GENUINE LOVE FOR SEXUAL PLEASURE-- both giving and receiving-- is far more important than anything else. Some of the best sexual encounters I've ever experienced were-- and are--with females that most men would call BBW. It's the mutual pleasure that counts. I am fully aware that most males are looking for fashion models, but the truth is, that very few people really are. And the few females that my wife and I have played with,wereapparently under the misconception that any male they consider having sex with, is doing them a great favor. Personally, I prefersex with confident femaleswhoare completely comfortable with their natural sexuality and simply enjoy pleasure-- giving and receiving!And no BBW shouild ever believe there are not males around like me, that feels and thinks the same way I do. You just need to be willing to make the first contact and willing to meet them and see if they are real or not.Over the years, my wife and I have seen the lifestyle change-- probably due to the internet--to mostly people (couples and singles) who are looking only for one-time encounters and not on-going freindships, like it was at one time. Today, it seems to us, that most couples and singles are more interested in QUANITY of sexual partners, than QUALITY. Also, there are plenty of couples, where the wife is more than willing to give their husband a "Hall Pass" if she also knows the female and they are friends.And if any BBW has a close, married female friend-- lifestlyle or not, since not every couple that enjoys playing sexually with others posts a profile on here or any other site-- then all they have to do is ask ifit would be possible to borrowher husband once in a while, with her or separatelyfor 1 on1 (lol). Nothing ventured is nothing gained, and I can assure you thatsome married female friends would give that serous consideration. Friendship between females that honestly like one another are closer than those between males, for many reasons.And if asking her to give her husband a "Hall Pass" risks ending the relationship, thenitwasn't as close as you thought in the first place.

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