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At a club or event I assure you I am not there to see your personality. Maybe if we ended up chatting or emailing I would see your personality first, but most the time its not your personality that I will be attracted to out and about.

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I know what turns me on and out of shape men do not turn me on. I am not seeking a relationship where I do not mind some extra wieght b/c of a nice personality, etc. But, I already have that with my husband. What I am seeking is sexual fun with others that "I" find attractive. I am not going to have sex with a guy that I know does not turn me on. Having sex with me is not an equal opportunity :)

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Livewire, you hit the nail on the head. I have seen far too many "skinny" people who are not really fit, as in healthy. Then you see people who would be considered overweight, who have no health issues. I would much rather be a little "thick" in the middle and not have a heart attack, then look like an Abacrombe & Finch model and croak of a massive coronary.

As far as a play partner.....personality, confidence and being comfortable in your own skin are some seriously SEXY traits.

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OK i did not read all of the posts here ( sorry i dont have that much time hahah ) but i have always wondered about the " HWP " thing, just what is HWP?? and who decides that? i would think and have found out from people that its a subjective thing, what one person thinks is HWP is not what someone else does, so how does one determen whats HWP? ( now this is not a attack on skinny women ) but to me if a woman is 5'8' and weighs 100lb's that's not any more hwp then a woman who is 5'8' and 270, so again i ask who and what decides this??

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My wife is what some would call a BBW, i call her SEXY and hot, as do many of the men that ask her to play at house parties we go to, me? i am willing to play with any size women, as long as they are nice, good personality and fun to be around, i prefer the bigger women,and dont chase the skinny women, but i am not a snob on either side of the fence, but if i had to pick between 2 women same personality but ones a BBW? i am going with the BBW just my preference

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Well thank ya, Sexus.

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Cool Girls Rock! Fun girls rock! Sexy girls rock! Tiny girls rock, big girls rock...

It's very much an individualized thing, as you saw and know now from experience. And I think going through your fight gives you a different perspective on people all around, with no time for bullshitters and fakes and flakes and mean people, no matter what their size.

Glad you posted.

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I have always been attracted to tiny, thin, tight women. My last GF was a size 0, 105 lbs, blonde and gorgeous. She was the love of my life and we were even talking about marriage. She passed away 2 1/2 years ago......crushing me and my heart in the process.

I recently ran into an old childhood friend. The guys all had a girl like this, I'm sure. A somewhat "tomboy". She played baseball and football with all us guys. Rode BMX and raced, most times beating the boys. I always just thought of her as a friend and not a potential sexual partner because she wasn't my "type". Running into her this time, everything was so comfortable. Like a couple of old buddies who ran into eachother at a ball game. However, now, we were adults. I was looking at her as a person with whom I've shared a lot of fun times. When we slept together, WHOA!!! That lady has skills and REALLY loves to have sex. The next morning, I wastelling her that I lost 55 pounds from chemo and that I was only 145 pounds. She began to laugh and said...."Damn, I outweigh you by 40 pounds." I looked at her and couldn't believe she was that heavy, but she was. Yet she was still one of the sexiest women I've ever slept with.

Big Girls Rock!!!!!

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Deb, he sounds like a good guy. And why have we not met you yet? I'm thinking we'll be hosting a party this spring...

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Very well said Gina. We all need love, appreciation, compliments, and all the things that go with being a human being. I was very large (FAT) at one time and my hunnybunny loved me then and told me later he never realized I was fat til after I lost weight. You have to love a man like that. Debbie

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