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Some women do starve themselves to be thin. He is explicitly talking about those. To extend that to mean he has a dislike for fit women is an awful big stretch don't you think?

Not everything is loaded with inferences and secret messages.

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I can live with that I guess.

It's the implication that thin women have to starve themselves to be thin that bothers me as I do view it as shaming, just as I would view someone that believes all heavier people gorge themselves and are lazy as shaming.

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If you think that "Stick woman, those who have to starve themselves to keep thin" is "fit shaming", then I think all we can do is agree to disagree.

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"Stick woman, those who have to starve themselves to keep thin are not fun to be with."

Va - Um, it's kind of right there ^^^ His belief that thin women are sticks and not fun. I'm assuming you have never been called names because you are thin. I have, my whole life. I'm lucky to have a naturally high metabolism and I also have a good diet and like to be active. However, I certainly don't starve myself, in fact I eat a lot, and enjoy indulging in foods I like

I have been always thin and people seemed to think it was fine to call me skinny, twiggy, stick, anorexic, tell me they "hated me", etc...If I took any sort of offence people would brush it off and say I was lucky...Lucky? Lucky to be called names and have my feelings on the matter dismissed?

Now, I get that this is the BBW forum and that people that tend to post in here aren't into thin women...that's fine. BUT it's not fine when thin/fit bashing is the norm and accepted. No sort of body shaming is acceptable any more than racist/classist remarks are acceptable.

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"VA, his implication is that thin women, (or the opposite of thick women) are sticks "

Disagree entirely. I think you're inferring an implication that isn't there.

But that's what's behind most of our arguments on here, isn't it?

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VA, his implication is that thin women, (or the opposite of thick women) are sticks and goes on to insult thin women.

It's fine if someone says they have a preference for thick or heavy or BBW but to insult women who aren't is simply ridiculous. Switch the terms and you will see my point.

"I would rather go thick than be with a stick. Stick woman, those who have to starve themselves to keep thin are not fun to be with."

I would rather be with a thin woman than thick. Thick women, those that have to gorge themselves to keep thick are not fun to be with.

IMO, both statements are equally offensive.

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Not once did he use the word "fit" and not once did you use the word "stick". You're talking about two different things.

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I look for you all the time, the single bbw's in my area don't respond at all. The married bbw's wants to talk but the hubby isn't interested. I find it hard to find a confidant bbw.

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"I would rather go thick than be with a stick. Stick woman, those who have to starve themselves to keep thin are not fun to be with."

So FIT shaming is ok but FAT shaming isn't? WTF? A woman who takes care of herself, eats properly and exercises does not have to starve herself.

It's fine to have a preference for thick women but it is not ok to insult fit women in the process. How would the ladies here feel if you said, "Fat women who gorge themselves are no fun to be with"?

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I attended a party last night where women with curves ruled. I love people, period. Woman with curves definitely are high on my radar. I had to contain myself looking at all that ass to the point where I asked a woman if I could touch her and not be like I heard some women are who just walk up on women and start grabbing at them.....ugh! I may not be a man but I am definitely interested in voluptuous women with great personalities to match.

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