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I've enjoyed reading this thread. So many positive thoughts! And special kudos to Gina. Well said.
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To the lovely young lady who started this thread:
I've looked at your photos and there is no doubt about your figure in my mind. Darlin' you are not a BBW. You're a beautiful, statuesque woman with a voluptuous figure that only an idiot could find fault with. I mean no disrespect when I say, "You're broad where a broad should be broad." |
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At a club or event I assure you I am not there to see your personality. Maybe if we ended up chatting or emailing I would see your personality first, but most the time its not your personality that I will be attracted to out and about.
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I know what turns me on and out of shape men do not turn me on. I am not seeking a relationship where I do not mind some extra wieght b/c of a nice personality, etc. But, I already have that with my husband. What I am seeking is sexual fun with others that "I" find attractive. I am not going to have sex with a guy that I know does not turn me on. Having sex with me is not an equal opportunity :)
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Mario, Live, and Naught - I totally agree. People come in all shapes and sizes...I am not in love with my extra padding and am working on reducing it. I also know that I will not have my 25 y/o body back again. HWP is in the eye of the beholder...to me a wonderful personality is the first thing I look at, second consideration is if the person is attractive to me. My definition of attractive may be way far from another's and that is as it should be. :-) M
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Livewire, you hit the nail on the head. I have seen far too many "skinny" people who are not really fit, as in healthy. Then you see people who would be considered overweight, who have no health issues. I would much rather be a little "thick" in the middle and not have a heart attack, then look like an Abacrombe & Finch model and croak of a massive coronary.
As far as a play partner.....personality, confidence and being comfortable in your own skin are some seriously SEXY traits. |
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Naughtfun, you're are absolutely right. HWP is very subjective. One could say it's all in the eyes of the beholder. We look for fit couples which in many instances does not equate to HWP, in the traditional sense, i.e. BMI, hip to waist proportions, etc... Our definition of fit is someone who lives an active and mobile life and takes care of their health and body. We've met people that were on the heavier side of the scale but run 1/2 marathons as a hobby. On the other end of the spectrum, we've meet thin people who are a heart attack waiting to happen.
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OK i did not read all of the posts here ( sorry i dont have that much time hahah ) but i have always wondered about the " HWP " thing, just what is HWP?? and who decides that? i would think and have found out from people that its a subjective thing, what one person thinks is HWP is not what someone else does, so how does one determen whats HWP? ( now this is not a attack on skinny women ) but to me if a woman is 5'8' and weighs 100lb's that's not any more hwp then a woman who is 5'8' and 270, so again i ask who and what decides this??
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