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Please dont judge yourself by what "society" says. curves are natural. curves are beautiful.

im sure im just the 100th guy to say this but "if i wanted a girl with a bod of a 10 year old boy, i'd be with a 10 year old boy"

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I don't know why any BBW would think she's not accepted in the lifestyle. This lifestyle is open and is accepting everyone of all gender, size, and colors. We personally won't judge others. However, we do have our preferences just like everyone else and hope that people can respect them as we respect theirs.

As for the stick comment, I'm glad to say that we both are within our doctors' recommended boundaries for healthy physical and strive to maintain it that way by doing everything in moderation (including sex with others LOL).

Have fun and good luck!

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Well said, FlCpl4Hung. As a guy with a few extra pounds, I can say that the guys get the same kinda treatment. Very few (if any) care about your back story.

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The simple answer is yes, especially at closing time. However, if given the choice of the Rosie O'Donnell type or the Sophia Vergara type of woman most men, and women, will pick the Sophia type. Even if the Rosie type was a lot more fun to play with. Attitude, personality and sex appeal can help the weight challenged's playing field, but since the lifestyle online is full of sexually openminded people and most don't spend much time trying to get to know someone, than it's going to be challenging to get past the visual test of the online swinger. Not knowing what kind of play you are looking for I would recommend lifestyle clubs or resorts where you can personally express your sex appeal.

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Why is it ok for someone overweight to make fun of skinny women and call them sticks, but not ok to call someone overweight fat?

Food for thought. If you want to be treated well, start by treating people well.

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Forgive me..... I went to your profile to look at the pics of a fat lady. I want to know where she is..........I didn't see one. Love the lady I saw.....

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I love women period it about the personality and long as she keep herself clean them I love to party

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To us there is no such thing as a BBW, just a beautiful woman! I guess what I'm trying to say is this, don't let the lifestyle change you... stay true to yourselves. To be honest, usually the things that ladies are insecure about are the things that endear us to you the most... it's what makes each woman unique. Nobody's perfect, so celebrate the difference. As long as you're being up-front about who you are and honest about your wishes/desires be confident and you will find what you're seeking... there's someone here for everyone.

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we are a couple and love a women with curves and we loveplaying with them to

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Yes, people are very close minded...Im not even sure why thats a real question. Everyday you see this in the real world and even on the site when reviewing profiles.

People have preferences and their experiences/perspectives manifest in the form of categorizations. We all categorize people that we see/meet and most allow those preferences to dictate their interaction...its human nature. Examples: 1) I spoke to a woman recently that is 5'11 compared to my 5'9. She likes to wear those jazzy heels and prefers men that are 6ft+. Ive dated taller women and can understand/respect her preference. 2) I corresponded with a woman that said she preferred black men (for whatever the reason). We exchanged pics and she then stated that she would pass b/c I didnt look black enough. I assume she was only interested in Shaka Zulu looking black guys, so I wished her luck and again, understood/respected her preference. There is absolutely nothing that I can do about my height or my complexion, so I dont dwell on it.

I didnt read all the posts here, but Im sure that some have suggested to simply be comfortable with the way you look and the rest will follow. The other option is to work towards changing, but never expect someone else's preference to shift.

Also, why worry about how other men/women view the BBW category? While BBWs vary wildly, I say be happy that there is a preference for women this size. How many others out there dont have a category and would love to have something specifically for them? I dont see anything for 'Women with Extremely Small Mouths, That Cant Suck Dick', 'Very Unattractive Men', 'Black Guys with Small Dicks', etc.

People have always allowed their preferences to dictate what they find attractive and people will always categorize others. There isnt anything anyone can do about that, but there is plenty that you can do to increase your own chances of finding solid people on the site. Start by not projecting your own preferences on others and focus on activities and those that are interested.

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