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TOPIC: Are any men interested
Created by: FunAndOmega
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In a woman who is an actual woman and not a stick? I am by no means gross and disgusting but I have curves and a very soft tummy. I can take things that most women get scared of and my boyfriend thinks I am the most amazing woman he has ever had in his bed. Why do most men get turned off just because I have a few extra pounds? Is today's society that close minded that everyone must be anorexic or spend thousands to look like an airbrushed model out of a magazine? This lifestyle should be accepting of everyone not just the skinny people because us "bbw's" can do somethings the little girls can't do. Just food for thought.

Oh and as you can see, my boyfriend a "little guy" so I am doing something right. Hmm maybe you should visit and see what it is.

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Beauty is in the brain.. ..all the Great Masters painted beauty and by the looks of the women that posed ... they weren't skinny. My first porn I guess.. there is a always special place for my first . ;-)

Livermore CA
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I saw a quote on FB that said: The only competition you should have is in the mirror.

San Antonio TX
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lost_j1 - I happen to agree with your sentiment. We are all women, and no one really is better than the other. Big, small, in between, we of the sisterhood need to stick together. I hate negative comments lobbed against my smaller sisters, and have been guilty of that myself in the past. We need to stop because if we stop it, then perhaps we can get society to stop it. Be beautiful in the body you have today, and if you decide to change, be beautiful in the body at each stage. You are right, we need to stop the comparison and just love who we are!

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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Some folks like meat and others prefer the slender type. I think it's wonderful that we live in a world of choice. No, we should not make one person feel bad about themselves because of hip size, but we do need to be mindful of health issues. Personally, I had to drop some pounds to improve my sex life (this is the female speaking) and my guy liked me when I was heavier and now as I am smaller. Yep, I plan to take off more weight (I tend to lose weight between September and January), but my desire is just to get to "curvy" standards. Some guys will still find me bigger than they would like, even at the top range of normal BMI, but who cares. I want to be with someone where I don't have to worry about a jiggle here or a jiggle there because being free is when the sexiness comes out. On the flip side, I would not want a slender female to feel self conscious about her body simply because she is small. We are all beautiful and there are people who find us all attractive, so it is all good. So, strut your stuff and enjoy the people who find you sexy. You have 11 certs, you must be doing something well. Forget about those folks who want to speak negatively to you; they have issues to work out on their own and you don't need to own that.

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I was just told by a "So Called Man" that I was fat and probably ugly because I weigh 175 and am 5'4. Now the story goes like this, he IM's me telling me he loves my profile and pic but instantly starts talking disgusting to me like a little boy, not the way a man should talk to a woman at his age of 38. I was kind in telling him "No Thank You" and when he asked why I told him because he didn't know how to talk to woman. So that's when he started insulting me and I knew I touched the nerve of an insecure man who doesn't like to be told "NO". I embrace who I am as I know I am curvy and beautiful and if someone doesn't respect the beauty of me, that's ok as everyone has a type.

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The Media has led society to believe that everyone should be thin to be sexy. Sexy is how you present yourself. You are a sexy couple and don't let people tell your different. If in our area give us a shout. Lets soak at the hot springs.

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Damn girl don't you ever watch th news ( the whole world is over wate if aney one can trust them for the truth ) as for myself all I can say plump, avg.. or skin and bones what counts is how she uses it :)))

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After checking your profile, the wife and I both fully agree that you are very desirable. Should we ever get up your way or you down our way, we would love to meet you.

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Please dont judge yourself by what "society" says. curves are natural. curves are beautiful.

im sure im just the 100th guy to say this but "if i wanted a girl with a bod of a 10 year old boy, i'd be with a 10 year old boy"

Norco CA
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I don't know why any BBW would think she's not accepted in the lifestyle. This lifestyle is open and is accepting everyone of all gender, size, and colors. We personally won't judge others. However, we do have our preferences just like everyone else and hope that people can respect them as we respect theirs.

As for the stick comment, I'm glad to say that we both are within our doctors' recommended boundaries for healthy physical and strive to maintain it that way by doing everything in moderation (including sex with others LOL).

Have fun and good luck!

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