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TOPIC: Are any men interested
Created by: FunAndOmega
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In a woman who is an actual woman and not a stick? I am by no means gross and disgusting but I have curves and a very soft tummy. I can take things that most women get scared of and my boyfriend thinks I am the most amazing woman he has ever had in his bed. Why do most men get turned off just because I have a few extra pounds? Is today's society that close minded that everyone must be anorexic or spend thousands to look like an airbrushed model out of a magazine? This lifestyle should be accepting of everyone not just the skinny people because us "bbw's" can do somethings the little girls can't do. Just food for thought.

Oh and as you can see, my boyfriend a "little guy" so I am doing something right. Hmm maybe you should visit and see what it is.

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@JamieCD: I can totally relate to that woman. I've always wanted to be one of those women with a flat as a pancake stomach. I wasn't even born with it and during my competition days, it was a hurdle I could never overcome, that little pouch at the bottom. During a play episode with some friends, I agreed to a video and when I saw it, I despised the way my stomach looked. To my surprise when I view porn, lots of women look like that. Not the ones who have been under the knife of course or the genetically blessed but average, normal women.

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A lot of us have self confidence problems but one thing I am so attracted to are bigger woman who are not afraid to show off their body. Many times I have been with a couple, I notice the woman on the bed with a pillow in front of her belly. Even though I understand it I like to tell her the reason I am attracted to you is your body the way it is and was hoping to see that beautiful body.

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@VandJ: Women of all sizes have issues. There are just as many, if not more, thin, beautiful women who are treated as fuck toys and spend a lot of time alone. As many men have stated in these posts and around the forums, it's all about the confidence in the woman. It's unfortunate society makes people feel that they have to conform to a certain type to be accepted.

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From my experiences although not many but I have noticed is that men also tend to view BBW sometimes as an easy target. As such we can probably all agree that it leaves behind a scar that no matter how hard you try to help wash away it remains.

My wife she is a BBW and drop dead gorgeous to me. We have a friend also who is a SSBBW. They are both amazing people that get looked over because they don't conform to what society says is beauty.

What most people do not realize in that regards is they normally don't get shown passion. I am selective myself of woman and prefer plus sized. More to love and when that door is open and showed the potential grows for them. No female deserves to be treated as just a fuck toy unless it's what they want.

In short amazing things happen when you give a BBW passion in that they return that passion if not more. They start to understand that the guy or gal is truly into them as a person and not just another notch on the post.

If I have gone off topic I do apologize just wanted to express my view point.

Vin

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Well, that warranted blocking me, right?

Grow up, dude.

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WELL when they ask you to tell them why after I said I was not interested, seemed even more rude to lie.

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"I told them the wife was to skinny for me. A few have gotten very mad at that."

I don't blame them. We never tell anyone why we are saying no thanks. Saying "you're too skinny" is just as mean (intentionally or not) as saying "you're too fat".

There is usually no reason to tell people why...just say no thanks and wish them well.

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I think most everyone has a particular body style they like. I have always been attracted to bigger woman or curvy woman. For some reason I think they are have more passion. I love to kiss and to find someone who loves it as much as I do must have passion to give back. I have always been respective of bigger woman and have no problems being in public and showing her off. I am amazed at the woman that have told me people they have been with didn't want to go out in public with them. Society sucks sometimes and I should know

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I think most everyone has a particular body style they like. I have always been attracted to bigger woman or curvy woman. For some reason I think they are have more passion. I love to kiss and to find someone who loves it as much as I do must have passion to give back. I have always been respective of bigger woman and have no problems being in public and showing her off. I am amazed at the woman that have told me people they have been with didn't want to go out in public with them. Society sucks sometimes and I should know

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My wife is a larger beautiful woman. It wouldn't bother me if she was a little slimmer but she is who I fell in love with; just the way she is, and I love her more now than ever. There hasn't been a time that we have been to an event that she didn't have several men hitting on her. Single men, couples, single women, it doesn't matter. Thank you, I will keep my BBW. Some people don't know what they are missing by looking past the BBW.

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