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User Details are only visible to members.	I love bbws but it is hard to find them on my end. I am in VA and all of them appear to have issues instead of understanding that swinging is recreational not emotional attachment
Ampthill VA			Username hidden (1 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think there is a comparison because the world we live in is so full of comparisons. More now then ever (imo), and is why so many young people (especially girls) are struggling to grow and develop with confidence, physically and emotionally. I know more young girls right now that have eating disorders and are 'cutting!' then I can comprehend. All different ages, different environments, different histories, and different kinds of loving families. Many people (young and older) are under the belief (or notion) that they are simply not 'enough' if they are not beautiful and have perfect bodies. It is so sad. I suppose the people who are angry about it are the ones that will deflect insult to others, and maybe it makes them feel better, and yes, for many, there is no teaching or explaining to such people, they have their minds set. I can't lie, I have a touch of these kinds of inferior complexes, I just don't have a need or desire to make others feel bad about themselves in order to make myself feel better. That would never make me feel better in any way, shape or form. For some people it does. I vaguely remember that exchange you had somewhere. Some of the thinking behind it I understand though. It sort of makes me think of the stories I have seen where obese people are all happy and giggly and jolly, in order to try to make up for their appearance. Of course it just ends up to be a vicious circle because they are usually in very severe pain on the inside and end up eating self to death as some sort of self punishment. It also makes me think of, (and I have no idea where or when I learned this) ... that 'ugly people better have good personalities or they will have nothing'. Of course, ugly is subjective, but I don't think I am alone in having heard or thought this. I do think people who perceive themselves to be ugly or unattractive, do think this also and they do think they 'have to try harder'. I agree with you, demeaning people is not okay.
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I asked that question myself Kind. I find such lines insulting to human being altogether. Why the comparison? what is the purpose of such statements. Each person, regardless of their look has something to contribute, each one of us has positive and negative traits, can and can not do. Demeaning people in such a fashion is just ridiculous and obnoxious. There is a thread somewhere (not in BBW) where a guy with a large wife made a statement that "fat women have to try harder." (As in securing a date, or in bed etc...)... I got into to it with him, and he was the most obnoxious asshole on earth as expected. There is no teaching or explaining to such people, they have their minds set.
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12313 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sarcasm is not contrary to genuine. No apology necessary, Thank you nonetheless.
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Akron, I'm sorry my 'question' insulted you, that was not my intention. With having seen so many of your one line comments that may be sarcastic or not, it is hard to know when you are being genuine or how you really feel about something. Of course I know it doesn't matter, but I'm glad you feel like many others who do think that way. That's all you had to say, if anything at all, but I do apologize for insulting you. ------ About the OP, curious to know what exactly --- "bbw's" can do, that little girls can't. ??? or maybe I don't want to know. :-o
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sed, I did not state: -skinny women can't have flaring hips. -skinny women can't have large breasts. I do get to make generalizations, when it is the nature of a statement about tendencies. It is not a rule of absolutes by any means. I even went so far as to all caps my expression that these things "CAN'T" be stated with entirety, they are merely tendencies towards. Few things are absolute when it comes to the human genetics. There will always be those that do not allow fit into absolute categories. -This could be due to basic genetic dominance. "There is a tendency for people to have brown eyes when one parent has brown eyes and the other has blue." -It could be just a random genetic deviation. "There is a tendency for people to be born with two eyes." Either way, common or uncommon in cause, I stand by my broadly generalizing statement and usage of the term "tendency."
Toledo OH			Username hidden (1055 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The post was easily understandable. There was nothing in my post that indicated heavy women were not attractive. Your inference was insulting to me. My response regarding English merely reflected your post.
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	" Read what I wrote as though it is written in English. ...Envy, jealousy and contempt sure can be though. I also indicated those traits would be ugly in any person whether chubby, thin or in between. " ----- So is being snotty Akron. But thank you both for answering my question. I wasn't completely sure what you meant by that, so I simply asked. I keep forgetting you're above any further explanation of a post. I agree with you all about 'angry' anyone. I don't really understand why so many people think swinging is so much about acceptance instead of preference's.
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I was just thinking what would happen if the reverse were to happened, a slender, "airbrushed," "curveless", "titless," posted this drivel. Something along the lines of: What's wrong with me? I have a flat belly, toned legs, tight little ass, perky tits, and men aren't interested. Do I have to grow a soft apron that hangs over my vagina, do I have to have gigantic droopy boobs with nipples staring at my feet, I can do what these people can not. I thought that this lifestyle was supposed to be about acceptance. Sheesh.
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12313 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Read what I wrote as though it is written in English. Weight is not a trait of personality. Envy, jealousy and contempt sure can be though. I also indicated those traits would be ugly in any person whether chubby, thin or in between.
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