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In a woman who is an actual woman and not a stick?"

I cannot stand it how women compete and hate on other women like this. This says because I am BBW and not a "stick" I am an "actual" woman...so the other women really aren't women. It frustrates me to no end. I have been very fit, I have been obese, morbidly obese, thing, sickly thin and then where I am now, curvy. And I can assure you, at no part of my journey have I ever been an "actual" woman and less of a woman because the number on my jeans was larger or smaller. Until this sort of behavior stops women will never, ever get ahead. Because we are our own worst enemy. Seriously.


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I have curves and I never have trouble attracting men. I prefer being with a man who also has some meat on him! Soft and cuddly is a turn-on. Hello ya!!!

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I have to say I agree with ANN20. People of any arrangement of physical attributes can be damned sexy (or not) mainly by how they handle themselves. It is mostly between the ears. If you are having fun and really enjoying yourself, the chances are much better that those around you are, too. But people just do have certain preferences, some things just do or don't turn them on. Sometimes it isn't even a specific attribute you can write down. For example, I once met someone who reminded me a LOT of someone I had a bad experience with in the past (not swinging related). No matter how hard I tried, I really couldn't get aroused by her, she was an instant turn-off to me and it wasn't anything specific about her except she was a spitting image (to include a similar voice) of someone I really didn't like.

Personally, I don't have a "type" that specifically turns me on or off, it is all about that specific person. A perfect knockout could be a turnoff if she has a bad attitude or it seems she is being pushed into something she doesn't really enjoy doing. Some of the most amazing sex I have ever had has been with larger women. They make the rockin' world go round!

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olive oyl?

Philadelphia PA
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Bah..I can't type....

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For me it doe spent matter, it's more about a connection. Best sex I ever had was with a lady with curves, she knew how to use them.

Richmond VA
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Thank you "Lady". Nice seeing your sexy self as well.

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Nice to see your sexy self out here Mario!

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Very well put, Ann. I couldn't agree more.

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What all of this comes down to is the attatude confidence you have in yourself . Enjoy who you are accept what other people think say weather it is wrong or right . you should never be upset by what another person prefers .. There are plenty of very nice non judgmentle people on sls , The rest you should just dismiss because you would not want to be with someone like that anyway . When i first started on sls i was 45lb heavier very self concious about it . I soon came to realise that there are a lot of men who do not care about your weight they want real honest fun people.you have to gou out meet , go to some meet greets . when people get to know you it is much easier to make a connection rather then trying to over an email . I finally became comfortable with my self and have become a very happy person . Selfconfidence is the main key once you have it the sky is the limit !!! you should never have to loose weight for any one ....but in my case i have found that when i am happy feel good about myself i loose weight without trying it has still been coming off .....so the moral of this story..........embrace who you are love yourself !!!!! The problems will fade away then . judgmental people are not worth your time any way . Hugs 4 u It will all work out

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