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TOPIC: wantting to meet reall ppl
Created by: forever4
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Im new to this, my question is how do you know when a couple is real and when to trust???

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wanting to meet ppl who are not real

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"Im new to this, my question is how do you know when a couple is real and when to trust??? "

Well...If you can't find place to blow them up, and they were not shipped in a brown paper box by UPS, they probably are real.

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I find myself in agreement with Frank again!

Everybody should have Fun!

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Look for paid and lifetime members. Putting up money is a sign they're real and in play. Certs are a good way to check, too, but new members don't always have them and some others feel they invade privacy. If someone is unwilling to commit to a meet and greet or a short chat on the phone, don't waste your time on them. Pics are good, too, especially if they are not cut out of some family reunion snapshot. LOL

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Flipflop, because the OP has no pictures herself, is she a no-go?

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Thank you all for the great advice and helping me! i am very thankful and grateful! if you have any though of anything i should know it being that im new to this please share!

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Welcome to SLS!

If you connect with a couple, ask to voice verify. I always request a quick 5 minute chat with every new couple just to make sure it's legit. If they have a cert or two and are willing to voice verify then most likely they are very real. Have fun!

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Welcome forever4

I checked out your profile and see you've only been a member for a few days. I am sure you've been inundated with mail... it can be pretty overwhelming. I'm glad to see you've found the Forums and are seeking some friendly advice.

The first time I went to meet someone I emailed myself his address because I figured if I disappeared, the police would check my email and at least know where to find my body... LOL... i do not recommend this approach!!

I suggest you spend some time getting to know a couple via email, IM, or talking on the phone (whichever medium you are most comfortable with). Once you decide that you'd like to meet them, choose a public location and something simple like having lunch. While its up to you, I suggest you tell them up front that you won't play at the first meeting. This will take away a lot of tension and allow you to focus on connecting with them as people.

I hope you'll find someone (another single lady or a couple) who will become a "mentor" for you. You'll be able to ask them questions and get their opinion and advice. Mine was actually a couple from another state so it was perfect for me -- we all knew there was little chance we'd ever meet to play and I felt they were truly motivated by a genuine desire to help me navigate the LS without getting hurt.

Best of luck! You're in for an empowering and enlightening experience.

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Im new to this, my question is how do you know when a couple is real and when to trust???

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