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TOPIC: so who chooses
Created by: dmanjr
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ok being new to this.mabey getsome advice or input here.;

when at the club,you have a couple people interested.one you(the guy)really like what you see,the other the lady is really into.so how do you choose?who chooses?;

advice/input?

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for 3somes, once one of us likes a profile we have the other look it over and check out the mail back and forth between them. then its her choice on girls, mine on the guys. luckily we very rarely disagree

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Since this is in the threesome category and in our case it's usually an extra guy it's obvoiusly her choice. For me it's a matter of feeling the guy is going to treat her right and be nice. You can get a vibe when talking and so far it's always been spot on.

When it's a couple we both choose. We each give a little leeway from time to time, however, there have been great nights where we were both amazed how well the match was. At least half the time though we have exercised discretion and realized connecting with each other was the best option. There is a limit to the latitude we'll grant each other at couples events. That gentle whisper in the ear of "Hell No.." is usually good enough-

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For us, she usualy gets to choose. That dosen't mean I (bill) allways get to "take one for the team". If either of us fine someone or something objectional about a person or couple we both pass without question. This is after all recreational sex, ment to be fun.

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ok being new to this.mabey getsome advice or input here.

when at the club,you have a couple people interested.one you(the guy)really like what you see,the other the lady is really into.so how do you choose?who chooses?

advice/input?

Carson City NV
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TOPIC: so who chooses