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Excellent post, Kane! How very true.

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"Face it, we're pigs".

LOL. Indeed.

-Tig (oink)

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I think Triple Threat hit the nail on the head when he stated that it's not that women's drive is so different, it's just that they are considerably more selective than the vast majority of men.

Also, women seem to have very strong drives before they have kids, say in the late teens to late 20's; then their drive ramps up again in the early 40's - after the kids are more self sufficient, or gone altogether. Probably most of this, IMO, is due to the fact that most of the childrearing/care responsibilities fall upon their shoulders. When they finally get a break from the kids, sometimes they want to play around, other times they want to sit on the couch, or by the pool, and not do a damn thing - they need a break.

If you've ever been to a swing convention, or a lifestyle oriented resort, you'd be shocked at how horny women can be when they don't have to deal with the housework, kids, jobs, or all of the above, for a week or so.

Having said that, I believe the selectivity issue comes into play quite a bit when comparing the sexes. My experience has been that for every lifestyle man a woman finds that she really wants to have sex with, her man sees 10 women he'd get together with, without hestitation.

Face it, we're pigs.

I know when I'm swinging with a partner, finding a compatible couple is often akin to pulling teeth, because of all the out of shape, attitude laden, or full-of-themselves men.

Kane

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Western, trust me, it says on Cialis: may increase sex drive

But anyhow, we met in the middle after about 21 years total (so there is hope!*lol) and than some months ago my hubby started to play with the SLS idea. Now my sex drive is out the roof AGAIN and that is not always a blessing!

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BTW, Cialis, Viagra and Levitra do *not* change your sex drive. They just give you something to do with it if you've got it.

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Wait about 10 years...... then the roles will be reversed. :)

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I don't know if most women are slow, but if you read the paperwork for birth control, medicine (xanax) and more, you'll find that it states: "may change your sex drive".

It does not say improve, like it says on Cialis as an example. I was on birthcontrol for 6 months in my whole life in my twenties and it slowed me down a lot, so I love to put the blame on the chemicals, but there may be other issues too?

I am hot 24/7 and want sex all the time with my hubby!!! He is just the biggest turn on for me always.

I would not fuck anything else all the time but him, just once in a while......if in the mood and we both want it and the other guy is a turn to on too. There are many man that may not turn on women, either it's their body, their behavior or just the chemistry may not be right? So to blame it on the women solely, is not the solution, many more factors and for sure the old cliche are huge points to keep in mind.

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:-) No way.......I am hot all day and willing too......never denied sex to my husband (in 20 years!!!) or had to put "a fake headache" up or anything else to "prevent sex" ever........this does not work for my life and me! :-)

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tbag-

Tell that to my good friend M who wore out 3 of us men last night and wanted more. In my experience, I just don't see any validity to broad generalizations.

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