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" ...and by cut we mean circumcised :) thanks for the tips :) "

Really? Nobody going for the obvious joke reference? LOL

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yeah we wrote our profile before we been on the site and we hare realized how many very beautiful women that are in there 40's and 50's and even into there 60's and are considering changing the age range, to be honest the agree range was more of a comfort thing, we felt (before we got to know some of the beautiful older ladies on the site) we felt like it would be more of us being with our parents...we still are not positive if we can comfortably change it but are very much considering it

we didn't realize that the "we are looking for a beautiful women" line was going to be the first thing ppl see when they go to our profile...lol and will be changing it. inbox us if you have any ideas on what you think we should put there.

Hollymmmm69, we are not looking for a beautiful women as in the "perfect women" as we are not exactly perfect ourselves and I guess we should have clarified a little better. what we are looking for is some one that is any women that is confident in her looks our preference is a thicker to bbw women that knows how to hold herself and is not ashamed of being a larger women.

SLOtowner it was my idea (the husband) to put in the cut...as we have tried on other sites and when we didn't put it in they asked us and then stopped responding, so we figured we would keep them from wasting anyones time asking, that was the only reason it was put in...

thank you for all the advise, keep it coming, the more we know the better chance we have of getting to our goal :) and that is the fantasy photo shoot with a possible "happy ending" for all involved :P

again, thank you all for the advise and we are taking everything into account

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" ...and by cut we mean circumcised :) thanks for the tips :) "

Why mention this at all? I think that is what AFT's wry comment was meant to convey. You either are or you are not circumcised and I suggest you remove any mention of it from your profile. If the fact that you are circumcised is a dealbreaker, you will find that out in someone's profile or in communications with them before you even meet face-to-face.

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I agree with the ladies completely. Absolutely gorgeous, "seasoned to perfection" women abound on this site. And sb...those legs go all the way to...well...the water

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Good catch sb311! They'll meet ladies up to 17 years younger than her but only 8 years older?

MnC, you'll find that there are amazingly "beautiful" ladies and hot "select couples" in their 40s, 50s, and beyond on here.

I know y'all are brand new to this and I'm truly trying to offer constructive criticism. I want you to be successful and enjoy swinging. I really think you need to attend clubs & parties and learn what's out there. Your focus is so narrow right now but I think a little bit of observation and exploration will help clarify things for you.

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MnC profile feedback continued: The first thing you mention wanting is "women to take naked pictures with the wife" and that if it leads to something more "that's bonus for us." I don't believe most ladies are going to be eager to come over to some stranger's home to pose for pics for that couple's private porn collection. Many people in the swinging community don't allow any pictures and those who do, typically only take that step with people they know and trust. As for the "bonus" you mention, it reads as if you are talking solely about your wife & you and not about the additional woman's needs, wants, & desires.

You mention being "new to this" and your profile is about a month old. There's definitely a lot to learn and experience so I hope you have the patience to explore a variety of scenarios and the perseverance to know it takes time. I encourage you to look for local Meet & Greets, parties, and clubs.

Your profile states that you are interested in a FMF and your wife would like for a lady or a couple to watch y'all have sex. You are looking for two needles in a haystack: a unicorn and soft swap. If you explore the Forum, you will find thread after thread on the difficulties of finding a bi single woman and the challenges of being a soft swap couple in a community where full swap is typically the norm. I'm not saying its impossible but you do need equal doses of patience, perseverance, humor, and did I mention patience?

I wish you the best of luck! There really are some amazing people here.

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MnC - I encourage you to take Mr Bridgetender's suggestion of posting in the ProfileReview for feedback. That's not my forte but I did take a peek at your profile to see if there were some areas for improvement. Honestly your tagline stopped me in my tracks. I burst out laughing but thought "most people won't get the joke." Then I read your profile and realized that you weren't joking.

"We are after beautiful women but may consider select couples" While its great to have standards, this tagline isn't achieving the goal you intended. As a single lady who would call myself confident, cute, sassy, smart & sexy, I'd never contact a couple so focused on physical appearance that they put it in their tagline. I'd think y'all were pretty arrogant (assuming beautiful ladies would want you) and very shallow. As for "select couples" responding, you've already let them know they are your second choice and not even a true preference but something you "may" consider. Why would any couple be excited by that?

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Who knew?

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Akron? A Wise ass? Say it isn't so!!

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MnC, That was Akron being a wiseass. You'll have to get used to it if you plan on sticking aound.

Since you mention that you've been looking unsuccessfully for a long time, you may want to revisit your profile. I can't see it as a SM, but often, lack of success starts there. You'll get great feedback if you're open to it and ask or it, in the Profile Forum.

Again, good luck! BT

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