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doesen't sound like the sm did anything wrong but both of you need a little better communication before getting into the lifestyle any deeper.
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IMO, if their arrangement was to only play as a threesome, MFM, it was inappropriate all the way around, (i.) for SM to purchase gifts without prior knowledge/consent of her hubby and ii. for wife and SM to play alone without the hubby if they did so without his prior knowledge/consent. Since the SM and wife have a work relationship, perhaps he is simply "vanilla" and new to the swinging lifestyler. Whereas, if the married couple have been actively swinging for any length of time, she was fully aware of their rules and should have known that to indulge in such inappropriate behaviour was very disrespectful to her husband.
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Isn't there some unwritten "dancer" rule that reads.
1. Always maintain separation of work and the real world. Clients are customers first work acquaintances second. Friends aren't clients or customers. 2. All "dancers" are single... male or female. The occupation mandates it while at work. |
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Personally, I would not have done that unless I had asked Hubby First.
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*c & p*.....the fem. (a dancer) meets the guy at work. ** those are the key words IMO. No lines haven't been crossed.
As a dancer, that is how she makes a living. Getting cash and gifts from male admirers "tips if you will ". As a married couple I would think it's the norm in their world to get cash and gifts from SM's as well as married males. Swingers or not it's all in a days work. Of course if she is a Ballerina, hip hop video vixen, professional clogger or working the State fair circuit. Or some other type "dancer" My point is moot. Mayham formally known as the poster that fucker !!! |
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Def overstepped in my own opinion.
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With us it would be crossing the line if he gave the gift at work before asking if he could....
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Wait, female of couple PLAYED with SM alone BEFORE the 3some?
Mr SVC would NOT approve. We have firm rule of 3some first before I (mrs svc) has permission to play alone. Gift giving should be AFTER the 3some, and after the SM checks w/ the husband. So I vote that this was stepping over the line. mrs svc |
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the wife and single male, see each other at her work. a cpl. times they play. as plans are being made for the three of them,
------------------ As a single male, question I have is this....did Single male make contact with Mr. and is Mr. on board with Mrs and SM playing Sans Mr.? If so, then seems OK by me. If not, seems like SM is too into Mrs. and actions, gifts, etc are not part of the couple playtime. If he brought them to the couple at group playtime...seems like fun gift to bring. If given to Mrs. at said dance club...Warning Will Robinsons, Warning, Warning... But that's just me? ItsBeen |
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