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TOPIC: kids_finding_out_about_your_life_style
Created by: victoriabrian
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What do you do when your son says "Do you belong to a Swing Site?"

Our 25 year old son was over with his wife and says to us this question and for the first time I was speechless, my husband say really fast NO, and our son says but you go to the dances right? His wife hits him and says it is none of your business what your mom and dad do.

So what do you do or say?

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We've been out as non-monogamous to our children for 20 years.

My present wife was my ex-wife and my girlfriend for a couple of years, so it was kinda hard to conceal.

That being said, we don't advertise to them or anyone else...

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She skipped a grade graduated high school at 16. Like the rest of my kids they are ready and eager to head out to be on their won at this time in tier lives. Plus my daughter made the Santa Barbara water polo team and was eager to get to college level play.

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16 years and she couldn’t tolerate any more, bless her heart........ for making it 16 years.

:-P

~Allen

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thats a bad policy. Kids need to believe that their parents are their rock their place when they need help. they must believe that their parents are the most boring parents in the world just to have a good relationship when they get married.

But then that's why our adult children dont live at home and all have good jobs with good relationships with women. My daughter in college is out of the house doing great starting at 16.

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A puppy pile generally from what I have learned is a group of ladies playing together.

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our policy has always been, if they're old enough to ask, they're old enough to know the truth.

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If you are caught by surprise it's harder to think of a graceful way out.

I'm surprised he asked both of you with his wife there. Why didn't he just talk to ONE parent alone, instead of with a big audience? That makes it extra awkward. I'm sure he and his wife already talked about it and, as others said, you've probably been 'outed' some how.

I am the kind of person to try to be as honest as possible with my kids (16 and 25). They don't seem to have a clue. I would tell my older son, but I'd ask him to not spread it around. The 16 year old wouldn't ask even if he knew, because he's kind of a shy guy and I don't think he cares about our sex life.

I figure I can talk about my values, why we don't practice monogamy, and ask them about their own lives. It's about respecting how others want to live their lives, and my sons are both VERY much on board with that. If someone is gay, bi, Republican, Democrat, worships empty french fry containers as God, or whatever, it's their lives to live as they choose.

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Golly gee umm dont put face pics in a swinger site would go a long ways to not having your kids or parents finding out. My mom is 87 and would freak.

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Puppy pile, hmmmmmm?

*wags tail adorably*

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@funly: our understanding is it's when everyone plays together on the same bed or space. It's how we like to play since we like being close to each other, but we also find it more of a turn on since hands and mouths and everything else are just doing their thing with respect to straight-bi etc and discussed rules.

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