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Friends is a very loose word contextually , I have "friends" I work with, parents of my children's friends or any of the 1,000 other way people use the word friend. If you feel so safe that you believe no one would dare cast judgment on you, gossip about you or ruin your relationships with family and work.....broadcast til your hearts content. At my age I realize that people, even friends don't always behave or react the way you'd expect them too. Even if you decide you can live without the "friend" who betrayed you be sure you can live with the backlash you will not longer be able to control. Once the words leave your mouth they can never be taken back, the damage can not be undone. I'd think long and hard about who I outed myself to you if I were you.

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"Several of you people are equating honesty with openness. When you do that you set yourself up for situational honesty. "

I agree with C&J it is none of anyone's business what I do sexually, not the neighbors, not my vanilla friends and certainly not my children. Any question from ANY relating to my personal life with get a role reversal with me asking the most outlandish , outrageously personal questions one could ever phantom. My children and I discuss sex and I share with them what I feel they need to know or answer general questions PERIOD. While I believe I am friends with all my grown children I am first and foremost their mother and as such I still decide what is their BUSINESS . In the case of swinging their is absolutely no benefit to them or me to delve into those details of my private life. I am also appalled by friends I know whose children knew at an early age ( 8 and 13) due to their complete lack of decorum as parents , their constant house parties , strangers ( boy toys and girl friends) being brought over and introduced as aunty and uncle and the fact they thoughtless leave shit all over their house. Once they confirmed what their daughter asked all pretense was put aside and now they are "so open and honest".........makes me want to throw up. Isn't cute to tell your daughter mommy has a date tonight how does she look?

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What's the last thing you want to hear when you are in the middle of a "Puppy Pile"? ....."Mom??!!??"

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An interesting thing happened on the way to the Forums. LOL

Yesterday I googled our profile name. Four times it linked to posts I had made on this site. One time linked to another site. Curt and Jane are our real names. That may have been a mistake initially but it’s too late to change now.

Several of you people are equating honesty with openness. When you do that you set yourself up for situational honesty. Let's put it this way, when your son-in-law asks if you're a member of a swing site. You suggest you must be honest and tell him everything. But when he asks if you use a black dildo with bumps all over it, what do you tell him then. It isn't a matter of whether or not honesty is the best policy, it's a matter of whether or not openness is the best policy. To not be open does not mean you are being dishonest.

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I have been in the lifestyle for 11 years, never had any of my four kids find out. I would say you need to learn to be discreet.

Houston TX
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cpl4cpls, Bravo! I guess the better you've raised your kids, the better your answer will tend to be.

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We just got that hammer dropped on us a couple of weeks ago. Specifically the wife got asked by our oldest son and daughter in law (husband was out of town at the time). We had discussed previously and agreed to answer honestly, so she did. Daughter in law was appalled and judgemental (as we knew she would be), oldest son went along with her (sigh), youngest son said "big deal, we always knew you two were wild with each other!" Bottom line, we agree if they are asking, they already know, so better to be honest.

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Funbicouple50 compliment /nice ass/

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Kids aren't as stupid as they often seem. If you've got teenagers, there is a very good chance they already know something's up, even if they don't know the details.

I'm a flirty fella... always have been, it's just part of who I am. If I tried to hide that, I'd probably go insane. I doubt they think i'm fucking everyone in town, though. They just roll their eyes, and go "yup... that's my dad".

If they ever found this site, and our profile, I'd have absolutely no problems having a discussion with them about it. I don't tend to shy away from uncomfortable conversations with my children. They don't need to hear details about how mom and I tasted the same pussy last week... Besides... if one of them were on here, you can be damn sure i'd want to make sure they knew how to protect themselves.

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SLO, yes, you were totally clear. In no way did I think that was an actual conversation.

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