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TOPIC: is it really that difficult mfm or even approaching it as a SM

Created by: nuttnerd Original Starting post for this thread:
I decided to check around the forums on here and I and even my wife have a few questions. How can one go about me getting into a stable solvent mfm scenario or just finding a woman to bring home. I am finding I am running into the following things. 1) going to a vanilla event and saying upfront that I have a primary partner = instantly weird looks and grossness in peoples minds. 2) trying to goto a swingers event solo = nty you are a guy the cock to cunt ratio is too high. 3) people in the community most times don't desire another male in the mix. I mean a-lot of women on the boards and who I have talk too before say mfm is their dream. If so isn't equality desired or am I missing something here? Neither my wife nor myself fabricate our life style. We both have active profiles on okcupid, etc.. and neither of us hide life style. Profiles are public and identified, I am more then happy to give couples my wife's #. The deal is how does one come across the fabled mfm deal.

Created by: nuttnerd
Original Starting post for this thread:

I decided to check around the forums on here and I and even my wife have a few questions. How can one go about me getting into a stable solvent mfm scenario or just finding a woman to bring home. I am finding I am running into the following things.

1) going to a vanilla event and saying upfront that I have a primary partner = instantly weird looks and grossness in peoples minds. 
2) trying to goto a swingers event solo = nty you are a guy the cock to cunt ratio is too high.
3) people in the community most times don't desire another male in the mix. I mean a-lot of women on the boards and who I have talk too before say mfm is their dream. If so isn't equality desired or am I missing something here?

Neither my wife nor myself fabricate our life style. We both have active profiles on okcupid, etc.. and neither of us hide life style. 

Profiles are public and identified, I am more then happy to give couples my wife's #. The deal is how does one come across the fabled mfm deal.

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