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User Details are only visible to members.	how much time do you have?
Vicksburg MS			Username hidden (465 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Lots of Unicorns out there, you just need to know where and how to find them! What's really funny is that usually those who are not looking for Unicorns find plenty of them. I've come to the conclusion that no one can tell you where to go and what to do. You either have that ability or you don't. In my opinion internet contact sites are not the place. You can be anyone on the internet. When you think you are talking to a cute girl, likely as not, you are talking to a 400 pound guy behind the key board with a picture of a cute girl! He's getting off and your not! For those who don't know how to find Unicorns the only alternative maybe to hire one for the night!
Lukeville AZ			Username hidden (576 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	@topkat - To answer your OP.....probably a hell of a lot. The single, bi female is the most elusive play partner there is. The rare single females out there have their pick and if that's what you are exclusively looking for, then you have to do everything you can to entice and encourage those females to feel attracted to you both, comfortable and safe. I haven't peeked at your profile, but maybe yours might need tweaking that direction? You may have to branch out and be looking on different sites, going to clubs, parties, M&G's, etc. If CL works for you, then go for it! Just be careful as a lot of those women "get paid to do the wild thang". (At least over here they are.) We actually found a single female once early on. She turned out to be a pawn in her boyfriend's weird "game". It was strange. Good thing we caught on before we actually met up.
Wailuku HI			Username hidden (440 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I agree with SLO on this. Find what works and go with it and consider (my 2 cents) revisiting your profile. Like it, or not, it's you're best marketing piece. Re-read your profile and ask the question, would you want to meet and sleep with you based on your profile content? SLS may be the perfect solo avenue for some. For others, I think being active on SLS, attending any local Meet & Greets, and visiting local LS clubs, if there are any nearby, are great strategies. A positive and resilient attitude will breed success in the long run...Again, my 2 cents. You've also reached out through this forum, hopefully to get advice vs. just to bitch. If its the former, thats a great first step. Good luck.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (4162 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	we think its mostly the supply and demand thing but there are a lot of fake people on here also that have no intention of meeting. We are members of three sties and its the same on all three. If it happens for us then great and if it doesn't happen then we still have a good time with eachother.
Vicksburg MS			Username hidden (465 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Gee, you'd think if someone did not like the taste of the water, they would simply find some they do like and not try to poison the well. If sls isn't working for you and craigslist does work for you, expend your energy there or on some other website. From my experience and discussions wth others, Craigslist is NOT known for being the place to meet great swing partners. Because of earlier comments, I took a look at your profile. I think it a foolish waste of energy and a vindictive effort on your part to be whining and criticizing sls and its members in your profile. Also, I looked at your pictures and found them somewhat aggressively hostile. I'm a single guy and I'd probably pass on you just based on that. And, I have to say, if you made it to second base (a face-to-face, neutral territory meeting for dinner, etc.) and they said "no" more than once or twice, then I'd say that you should to take a look at your attitude and personalities. You probably are not going to find a great deal of sympathy here in the Forums. While the members who DO use the forums are probably (don't know for sure) a tiny subset of the entire sls membership AND sometimes argue and "fight" amongst themselves, they seem to unite and rise as one when someone takes cheap shots at this little sls world. ;-)
San Luis Obispo CA			Username hidden (1192 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Tattoo, Is there a mention of your boyfriend on your profile?
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12216 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Like2 is a sweetheart : ) Kat
Morgantown PA			Username hidden (2965 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It starts and ends with venom.
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	thank you like! That is a very sweet thing to say. I love me some Shell! TY, sweets. So, when are you bringing your sexy self back to PA? You just know Kutztown looks adorable in the Fall : ) I know , I know!! OMG. I keep telling Jay that this whole ins. thing is an omen hahaha.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23638 post)

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