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TOPIC: guy nice enough, but can't perform
Created by: kinksterhere
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Isthis common? Sadly it has been my experience with the last few guys I have tried to play with. One I even gave a second chance too and met him again. But at best they get cubby, but not hard. Even had this problem with a couple where the guy's girl was working him and working him, but he just could not get real hard. . .. I give a good BJ and make out well, but these guys obviously are having an issue. Is this common? The worse is when they keep coming after me over and over to suck them more or make out more. Mean while my guy is over there and rock hard and waiting for the guy to get out of his way or giving it to the other girl if we are with a couple.;

I can understand being nervous, but what bugs me is how some of them try to compensate by being more aggressive with demanding more making out or trying to force their limp cock in my mouth. Or worse try to fuck with a limp noddle that keeps bending in half.;

are these experiences normal? How do you handle them? How do you avoid them?

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thanks yondude, im sure that must be it lol ;)

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Yondude: You are funny!

VA: For the reasons you just gave is why I really don't like large parties and prefer a threesome. For me, there is more of an opportunity to really get into the people and not feel as some may that they're competing in a fuck marathon. The threesome or even the foursome for me is a better opportunity to really enjoy myself. The last large gathering I went to several years ago, since I was a new face, I was getting a lot of attention, mostly unwanted, I feigned a headache and left. There is less chance for the standing around boredom you mentioned as well.

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My ability to double as a hat rack at parties is limited. I mean, for a little while, but it's kinda boring just standing there.

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It wasn't the "massive hardon" the idea of someone dropping a hat and BOING!!!Oh My God!


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You absolutely nailed it, BLT. Pardon the pun.

Perhaps it's because the first experiences most women have with sex are when they are young and scared to death, taking forever to get excited, while boys of the same age walk around with boners ready to penetrate a hole in a fence if need be.

In my experience, as we age, women become excited MORE easily, and men require more to reach a state of readiness. I'm not 75, but I ain't 15 either. Poking my dick once doesn't elicit a champion-level hard-on.

Women complain about the unrealistic expectations of women they get from porn. Funny, I never really expected women to have perfect bodies or an ass that will accept a baseball bat with no warm-up. But women suddenly seem to have this idea that all guys should have 9 inch cocks that are as stiff as a fence post, be ready on a moment's notice, and be able to fuck for hours in the most contorted of positions.

Porn stars are porn stars because they are exceptional in some way. Male and female. Most men could never possibly be a porn star - they do not have the physical and mental stamina. Most think they could, but they can't.

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LOL. "massive hardons".

How many women are reading this and getting a chuckle right now?

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Illnesses aside, I can only imagine the enormous pressure on guys expected to get massive hard-ons at the drop of a hat in a group setting or even one-on-one with a new person. The problem I have sometimes in the LS is that in many cases there's no intimacy. We say chemistry but is that enough? Perhaps that's what some of the guys are missing as well.

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Kitten: Mayhaps they were just freaked out by your sexiness and developed performance anxiety.


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What - the generic names for Viagra?

There was a funny email some years ago...

Also considered were mycoxafailin, dixarizin, dixafix, coxarectin, ropesapushin, etc

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The major causes of a guy who can't perform in a group situation are alcohol and anxiety.

i agree. i have been with people who say they had issues with me because of medication, but then they had no problem performing with their own wife.

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