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TOPIC: can_anyone_help_us_out
Created by: paulmeg516
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we are a couple looking for a single female or a couple with a bi female to join us. We have tried CraigsList, and have been on SLS for a few months now and are just not having any luck. We are not really into the club scene, so we haven't been to any of the clubs yet, but we are willing to try some out. If anyone can point us in the right direction we would truly appreciate it.

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On the left hand side of your SLS, there is "Events." Click on that and you will find lots of available meet and greets and parties and other events in your area and surrounding. Also, join some of the "Groups" if you get an invite to do so. That way you can be aware of what is available where you live.

Good luck!

San Antonio TX
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can anyone let us know when there would be a meet and greet in our area?

Middle Island NY
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I know a single bi fem, and she is not a swinger, but she does have her fun. She is a good friend of mine, and she has her pick of who she wants, when she wants. The fact that she is hot helps too. But imagine being the single bi fem on here, which is a much smaller pool of people, yet they are still inundated by emails. Like others have said, it will be difficult to find the right person on here. One reason why is because they also have to feel they mesh with you too.

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I would change some things in your profile so you don't sound desperate or frustrated or looking for help. Sound confident and fun, as you say you are fun...and let it go from there. When you email another couple or single female, find something very specific in their profile to compliment. not just pictures, but something that they have written. most people are happy to see that someone took the time to read through the whole profile.

Be patient and hopefully good things will come.

gina

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You will not have much luck on here in finding a single bifem really. I know you aren't into the club scene, and you do not have to be...but I would become active in your local lifestyle community. Go to some meet and greets, there are usually at least a few single ladies there. And be patient.

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When we first joined SLS, all we wanted was the single female to join us. We emailed all the single ladies near us, never hearing back. We started emailing couples with Bi females and started getting responses. We got to know a few people and really started having fun. We now go to clubs and are really enjoying ourselves. It has been several months now since we joined SLS, we have played several times, but still have not had that single female. But it doesn't matter now, cause we are loving this new lifestyle that we have.

Boyertown PA
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You and hundreds of others who post here in anxious pursuit of the unicorn.

Your best bet is probably to visit a swing club a few times. You stand a much better chance of finding what you seek in a club or party atmosphere.

Good luck to you! If you do a little searching of the archives, you'll find a litany of frustrated couples who can't understand why the single women aren't beating down their door.

Charleston WV
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as a side note, we are also getting very frustrated by the fact that we send out emails and nobody even bothers to reply with a no, or not interested, or even a reason why. Maybe we are doing something wrong, I just don't know. So please someone help us out.

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we are a couple looking for a single female or a couple with a bi female to join us. We have tried CraigsList, and have been on SLS for a few months now and are just not having any luck. We are not really into the club scene, so we haven't been to any of the clubs yet, but we are willing to try some out. If anyone can point us in the right direction we would truly appreciate it.

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