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TOPIC: bi vs bi-currious in threesome profiles
Created by: BTRW3
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We are looking for how you all regard the category of a womans staus being listed as bi vs bi-currious in a profile. It seems there is a wide range of lattitudes being when these description are being applied.

We were seachiing through profile today looking for a unicorn and found a profile where a lady only wanted couples, really enjoyed the touch and feel of a woman but listed herself as straight then went on to talk about fatasies with a woman. Now that is confusing. We passed which is hard to do when unicorn hunting.

Even when we meeet and talk face to face these words get thrown around with little meaning. We have played with other couples or solo females that state " I am bi-currious", "I want to explore the touch of a woman" but then in the bed room find out it really mean more currious than action and have a brief tense moment when my wife finds her real boundary.

In other cases it has meant the lady really wants to expeirnced all there is between two women but have it is their first time so still "bi currious." We had one response say she thought that bi meant butch.

So it seems bi-currious can mean everything from I like watching porn but no real life to keep it above the waist to first timers wanting to experince it all. We started using bi-currious in our profiles as to not excluded or scare someone off as these terms seemto mean such a broad range of boundaries. We are happy playing within boundaries tighter than ours and have great times either way.

We also have experinced the other end of the spectrum where bi seems to mean solo interest in the woman and leave the guy out. I am happy for my wife but kind of wondering where the bi part got lost especially when posting to be a part of a threesome listed as FMF not FFM.

What makes it more interesting is we do try to talk things out so boundaries and expectations can be set. Generally we find that only really works with experienced people. What we are finding more now we are pursuing more FFM and FMF threesomes is there is a lot of first time fantasy that when put to the test of reality it does not hold up.

We are very laid back people so these things do not bother us and a good night is just everyone leaving feeling comfortable is always our objective.

It seems in today's world that the norm is for a woman to say bi-currious, as it is the in thing to do.

So our conclusion this is one of those places where the slogan.. "a little less talk and more action.." does not apply. We spend the time talking this one out.

Looking forward to other thoughts.

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I cant wait to move to nawlins...ahhh will be sooo nice..

Spring TX
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Hi everyone. I have found that some women that say they are bi curious only want to kiss, cuddle, and have breast play with other women. Some are pillow princesses so they want to receive oral but aren't ready to give. Some call themselves "curious" because they haven't had any experience with another woman or not enough to have decided. I used to call myself bi-curious until i really had a little experience under my belt. Now, oh Im definitely BI!!! lmao

Cordova TN
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Oh no, I won't be entering! Not this year at least. But I do want to attend.

Louisville KY
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PG, he might have been poking a little fun at me; not sure.

No matter; come to NOLA and enter that burlesque thing. I'd love to see your show.

Belle Chasse LA
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MGE?

what code is that?

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thanls,,,FUN

Kingston TN
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While I think Mardi Gras would be a good time, I really want to come to NOLA for the Burlesque Festival. A friend of mine has done very well in the big contest the last two years.

PG

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Storm, the biggest parades start the weekend before Fat Tuesday. But there are smaller parades all over the area for a couple of weeks prior to that. Krewe du Vieux is my favorite, and the funkiest; it's on Feb. 4. Just Google Mardi Gras or go to NOLA dot com for a schedule.

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no need to be sorry,I wan't in a hurry.I was thinking of coming to MATI GRA this year.been trying to go for 40 years,may be I'll make it this year.when is the best time to go, about two days is all that I want,maybe three,don't have a lot of money.can you give me an idea of where to go. BS

Kingston TN
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"those that are Bi-currious tend to be more nervous and unsure."

take it easy on them people. they are new. :)

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