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Akron:

Thank you for your counter point. I stand corrected.

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It's easy but at some point you have to make the mark aware of what is really going on. That role can fall to the wife or the husband but you can't mislead him too long or he can end up being upset or having his vanilla feelings hurt.

We've typically sat at the bar and struck up a conversation with the mark describing how we're close friends and neighbors and she's divorced and getting her feet wet in the dating scene. I tell the guy how great she is and so forth. If she ends up liking him then we can let him know the truth and see if he remains interested. If not, off to an other place.

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The problem with clubs is there really in no challenge. The single guys at clubs are too easy. A vanilla bar ups the ante.

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Ya, It is just not the same at a club. We go to clubs, but sometimes we are just in the mood for something different. There is a different thrill at a vanilla bar. It is not that I feel awkward, just looking for advice on what works the best and goes the smoothest.

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It's not the same at a club.

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Gin:

If you feel awkward at a vanilla bar or if you want to really increase your chances of success, try it at a club. You'll surely be very pleased by the outcome (or should I say outcum?).

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We've done it. I've been there as her friend.

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Occasionally we like to go to a vanilla bar where I attempt to meet single guys as my husband watches. The goal can vary from flirting and dancing to finding a playmate. We have done this several times with varying success. I am never sure what to tell a guy when I meet him... I am here alone? I am here with a friend? I am here with my husband, he is off running around? While I do not want to lie, I do not want to scare anybody off either. Anybody else play this game? How do you set it up?

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