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We've done this a couple of times and honesty (mixed with breivity) works best. When men asked if she was married, she admitted it but didn't go into the "we're swingers" conversation. She just lets them know she is married but receptive to NSA fun. One night she met a vanilla man and left the bar for some fun, they had some fun but he was too drunk to get a full erection. Another attempt at it resulted in several different men hitting on her, but she had to leave when someone we knew came into the bar...we didn't want to have to explain that she wasn't about to cheat, lol. Fact of the matter is most guys will not care if she is married or not, if they get a chance to experience a beautiful woman, they'll take it...we're all swingers here, do we blame them?

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*Sigh....

Now I REALLY wish I had bumped into you two in NOLA last fall.

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We've had a lot of fun with this. We experimented with it in the beginning but have gotten pretty good at it now. The way we play the game:

We went in separate, her first, then me 5-10 minutes later. She was dressed sexy enough to already be at the bar and have plenty of attention. She danced, flirted, kissed and touched. If any guy asked (and they rarely did) she would say that she was waiting for a girlfriend that was meeting her there. I was also making the rounds flirting and dancing with any single ladies, while keeping a sharp eye on my wife. More than once I ended up dancing with a woman right next to my wife who was dancing with a guy. A little wink and grin and everyone's having fun. Late in the night, she has picked her guy. If he doesn't excuse himself to go to the restroom, then she would. She would introduce me as someone that she'd just met (put him and I on equal footing) and she wanted to try a mfm. He was either game or not. We had found previously that most vanilla guys had issues with a husband being present, so we went to the "I just met him" routine. Sometimes when we were done, we would "fess up" that I was the husband. But usually we all parted company with him thinking I was just like him. Everyone left happy.

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Earlier, in our more imaginative years, we used to go to large airport hotel bars with great success. These guys were usually businessmen away from home, spending the night at a local hotel during their stay, or were cruising before heading out the next morning or making another connection. Since they were away from home, they were usually super horny, felt safe from identification, had a room, were on an expense account, and there were plenty of choices. Plus, they were gone the next day. If we wanted a repeat, we gave them a phone number. If we didn't we gave them a phone number.

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I used Akron's approach last night and it worked perfectly. Took a hottie out to a bar with a pool table and sat near it. When I saw a guy paying attention to her, I went to the rest room and by the time I got back he had challenged her to a game of pool. When he saw me, he asked if it was ok and I said I was just a friend and she was hoping to meet someone so have fun. They played some pool, flirted and she ended up inviting him back to my house. By that time he kinda figured out what was going on but was happy to join in. He got a nice BJ for his efforts.

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Meeting people at the bar means someone will be left in the dark for a while. Like the time I talked to what I thought was a couple for about a week. Made plans to meet up at a bar. The husband and wife sit down and we make small talk for a while. The husband gets up to go to the bathroom and the wife ask me how long I had known about this, because she had just learned about why we were all meeting when they pulled in the parking lot at the bar. When the husband got back there was a few tense moments and then everybody loosened up and we had fun the rest of the night. Though we didn't play that night we did meet up a week later and have been playing together for about a year now. I guess you never know who is up for what until the situation presents itself.

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What your planning is difficult and we found often ends in no "decency prospects" always available the nights we go out. LOL. I ( the husband ) have learned to " stack the deck"...... Days before the night we wanna go out, I create a free profile, no pics, only describing her and what our intentions are, then, put up a hot date for that night. Only I know which guys at the bar are swingers, it keeps it real for her and the guys because only I know what both look like. ( sometimes, she picks a guy, that was their on Thier own too) to our suprise, a lot of men, don't do threesomes with another man present, those are the close minded that think its gay like sex.

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The direct approach is the best, most honest way to pick up men, although a little initial subterfuge/trickeration is often necessary to set it up LOL. My ex hotwife and I found that nice to upscale sports bars were the ideal vanilla places to pick up attractive men for 3somes. There were plenty of them there, married and single, str8 and bi, scoping out the hot barmaids and waitresses and solo female patrons. She'd walk in, dressed provocatively, but not whorishly, not removing or trying to hide her engagement/wedding rings. She'd take a seat at the bar while I waited 5 to 10 minutes in our car. I'd then walk in, take a small table or booth and watch her flirt outrageously with one or more guys. It turned me on to watch her flaunt herself to other men, wondering to myself which other lucky guy she'd choose to take to our bed. Once she'd decided on which guy to proposition, she'd reveal my husbandly presence and invite him to join her at my table/booth. It was then that we laid our cards on the table, with her telling him she wanted to suck him and fuck him and me telling him I wanted to watch & join her in sucking him and join him in eating and fucking her. Rarely did we leave without a hot, willing partner!

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Good naturedly. You are hoping the guy isn't a psycho out on a weekend pass. You let it go as far as possible before you tell him the truth. I guess you have to be a good judge of the guy's character and the situation.

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So how do you handle the surprise when the guy shows up? That is what I am trying to figure out. I do like Akron's suggestino.

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