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sorry Nic, has to be real so it doesnt pull off easy...lol

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Hmmm, now in Philly? Gonna be there long? I am planning a trip in a few weeks. Plenty of time to "go blonde"

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My husband likes to watch me "trail" and pick up a stranger every once in a while. As soon as we walk into a bar, I make eye connections with guys that have the "edge" and pretty much know who would be an easy pick. Once some socail talk and borderline flirting go on, I tell my "new guy" about our fantasy and introduce him to my husband. Most men are uneasy and need reassuring. Once they understand the fantasy, the rest of the night is easy.

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If that was the case, Then Mrs John would have kicked me out of bed long ago.

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Joey, there is nothing "not nice" about your and Akron's approach, at all. As mentioned, I had no expectation of that couple inviting me back, and wouldn't have blamed them in the least if they hadn't. But, all of us were glad we gave it another chance. :)

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I know its probably not the nicest. Be we don't meet a second time either if someone couldn't perform the first. It usually repeats itself.

We've had both extremes. Guys that can't get it up. And others who start spraying the second the zipper comes down...ha

Since I'm really comfortable and sex with others is not out of the ordinary for me its hard sometimes for me to put myself in someone else's shoes who is not experienced. Most guys when they cum are eyeing the door immediately. Even if its 10 minutes into it. I just don't get that discomfort myself so ill just start doing something else and 10 minutes later I'm up and ready again.lol

But there have been times where the guy just isn't functioning, my wife is working her tail off and nothings happening......then looks at me like "what do we do?"

Ill be blunt and say it sucks. It does make it a lousy experience. Not gonna lie.

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"We never met twice with a dood who had an erection problem at the first encounter. Mrs A always wanted to assume it was her fault."

I had an erection problem once that was sort of her "fault," in a strange sense. 

I'm wired such that the more attracted I am to a woman, the more I want it to be a great experience for her. The pics were of one of the most stunning women I've ever seen, and she sounded great on the phone. It started creeping into my mind how much I wanted to try and make it a mind-blowing encounter for her. 

It was going to be not only their first MFM, but their first time to go beyond soft swap. That is, I was going to be the first man, other than her husband, she had ever been with. The pressure mounted. 

It didn't help that they had already played with a single bi fem friend of mine, who apparently exaggerated and inflated her expectations about me.  

When we finally were able to schedule a meet, she was even more lovely in person than I anticipated. Over cocktails we really hit it off with mental foreplay, and moved to the bedroom. 

She was eager, but to my horror I went pretty limp. All those raging boners for over a month of anticipation just refused to reappear. We still had a good time, but it wasn't exactly the fireworks show I had wanted to give her. The only good thing I did was to convey that her only "fault" was being so damn attractive that it got into my head. Which was true. 

I really didn't expect them to ever invite me back, but they did. This time, no one had any great expectations. It turned out to be one of the most intense fuckfests I've ever had. It was her "fault" that after fucking her most of the afternoon and then going to dinner, I wanted to fuck her some more that night. The lesson for me was not to have great expectations, but with a really hot woman that can be easier said than done.

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Welcome to the forums BTW....

Youngstown OH
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Wow, the direct approach?

Who'd a thunk it??

;-D

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My wife tells the other guy that we are swingers and if he is interested he is welcome to join us. She has picked up quite a few single males at the casinos and some of them have been very entertaining.

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