Wife chatting with the second male: Swingers Discussion 2077881031

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User Details are only visible to members.	Good luck and I hope everything works out for you both. Just remember, you are here to have fun, meet new people. When it stops doing that, its time to stand back, and decide what you both wanna do.
Shamokin PA			Username hidden (1033 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"Just a funny aside..there is one wife I text so frequently that one morning, I hadn't texted her and by 10AM got a text asking if everything was ok." This would be me. One single male I text with told me in a text that he wasn't feeling well. Didn't hear from him the next morning (I usually get a good morning text from him) and started to worry. Worried more when I texted and he didn't text back. Was seriously thinking I needed to head to FL.
Louisville KY			Username hidden (13975 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	it depends on you and your wife and what works for the two of you. I have several single males either in the past or currently that I have tons of contact with via chatting, texting, emails ect. my husband knows I talk to them and he has no problem with it. It works for us. He knows I love him and only him even though I do care about some of my single male friends. I worry when they are in harms way or I don't hear from them for a bit. But then again we are a bit different then most, if we could have figured out how to explain my absence to the family I would be heading to Cabo at the first of October with a SM that we know and trust. PG
Louisville KY			Username hidden (13975 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It really just boils down to mutual respect. I respect all rules and the husbands boundaries are just as important as the wife's desires. Just make sure both husband and wife are on the same page so I am not caught in the middle. Just a funny aside..there is one wife I text so frequently that one morning, I hadn't texted her and by 10AM got a text asking if everything was ok. lol Her husband is fully aware of the frequency and he also texts me from time to time to make suggestions for our next get together. It is awesome when everyone is on the same page which brings us back the the OP. Make sure you and your wife are on the same page then communicate your wishes to the SM. If he's smart, he will abide by them. If he doesn't, give him the boot.
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11414 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	A s a single male , I totally agree with the things that Nic brought up in his post. Each couple has their own set of rules and as a single male I strive to not only "know what the rules are but to follow them as well". Of the couples that I see , I have discussed this issue with them if they did not make their wishes clear in our early meetings. Like Nic said I have some that are perfectly ok with daily text or some form of communication with the wife pretty much at will. In fact some of the husbands even encourage it . Even with the permission from both , I usually let the wife make the contact with me first in an effort to make sure that I do not interfere with their daily lives. Communication is always the most important thing in my opinion, and I feel that it is as much my responsibility as theirs to keep all lines of communication open and above board. Speaking only for myself, If i was the single male involved in the situation with the original poster, I would want the concerns to be brought out and discussed with me as well . I am not interested in any kind of drama or issues between couples and would want to made aware of any that may be on the horizon ! Just my humble opinion.
New Braunfels TX			Username hidden (23 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I have to agree, talk to her as soon as possible, before you do sometime stupid like throw it in her face during a spat.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2188 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I agree totally with you. We would stop all play with that person and talk. We have been there, and I am sure a lot if people have, and you really have to talk, and be open and honest with each other. Otherwise it could get ugly fast, do not let it fester.
Shamokin PA			Username hidden (1033 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It bothers him enough for the original poster to post on here about it, so its clear as day it isnt ok with him....and it look slike his wife minmized his concerns to her wants (if it was the other way around, lets bets she would be in a huff)......nobody else will speak for you, so he needs to be direct and clear as day to both parties......each day goes by makes it more difficult IMHO
Melville NY			Username hidden (31 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	My point of veiw is to stop it now...and talk,talk,talk I( the wife) hardly ever chat afterward, unless to set up another date. My hubby takes care of that and we never give my cell phone, if they need to reach us, they go thru him. The same rules apply whether it be male or female and if it is a female and he crosses the line, yoy can bet I speak up and very clearly and all play with that person is done.So the same should hold true for a male. I would speak up before it ends up trying ugly.
Shamokin PA			Username hidden (1033 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I would advise you sit down with your wife and discuss the situation to come up with an agreement. This situation can turn ugly very fast if there is no clear understanding of the boundaries. For us the SM that I play with they text me at will. But each couple is different
Howell MI			Username hidden (1615 post)

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