Why So Few Nice Single Men: Swingers Discussion 2152771062

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User Details are only visible to members.	I call bullshit on SMs not "bringing something to the table." There are lots of SF and couples who are interested in meeting up with SMs. There is a place for EVERYONE in the lifestyle. Couples, SFs, and SMs.
Hunt Valley MD			Username hidden (3548 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	To NicAtNight - and the group in general - no disrespect to single men was meant in my earlier contribution. You're right - this is the M of the couple. Single men SHOULD have a place - or places - to go to interact with couples as a 3rd, if they choose to. The lifestlye does in fact allow for many possibilities. I do note though, nearly every swing club and membership based clothing optional resorts DO traditionally limit number of unattached men. We are at the point where we pay little or no attention to those we have no interest in. Still, I know people who felt like they were inadvertently putting on a show for singles at certain clubs - that makes some people feel awkward. Especially those just getting into the lifestyle. As a married couple, we likely would not go to a singles bar, or a singles event - even though ( I am guessing) there would be a lot of men or women looking for some excitement and many might be open to the idea. It's not the venue we feel we belong in. And there are resorts in the Caribbean that are geared for couples - and I guess, some with an emphasis on singles ( ??) ( Is Club Med still around ? I know there are still singles cruises out there ........ !!) So singles have options too - they are just DIFFERENT options. And, there are websites like this - and CL - and other methods that I am not aware of. As far as my " bringing something to the table " comment went - I still stand by it. We just attended a party where one of the women was inadvertently "neglected" for a bit - she was apparently a bit put off by this, but a little extra attention later made up for it. When we play, I want to know my partner is being satisifed, being treated well, is safe and is enjoying the experience to the max. THEN I know I can do the same. I never leave her sitting "alone on the couch " while I am playing with someone in another room, and vice-versa. Again, for us - it's an even-numbers game. Anyway - we know what WE like - and what makes US comfortable - or NOT comfortable. Our opinions are purely our own !!!! And going back to the original TOPIC - There ARE a good number of single men out there ! They just don't fit into our personal equation of enjoyment or happiness .
Dover FL			Username hidden (11 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I can relate to your post. We live in Florida where everyday is "casual" dress day. We have a local club monthly meet & greet. It shocks me how people come dressed. Flip flops, shorts, etc. Really?? So far, we have not had good results with SMs; except at certain LS clubs. Down in Miami & Ft. Lauderdale the hispanic guys do dress up, smell nice and try to be gentlemen! Had a couple of nice experiences down there! ;>) Keep looking......there are other LS websites also, besides this one....just sayin'.
Cocoa FL			Username hidden (108 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	:)
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12258 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	With a view looking up at you like that of your profile pic, you can explore and enoy my oral skills to your heart's desire;) Your evening sounds like it contains style AND substance. Sometimes the big parties are lacking in the former and can be a bit cookie cutter when going from A to B but a night out with you, I'm guessing I would be kept firmly on my toes and nothing turns me on more than creativity and not knowing what sexual forray is around the next corner. And that hardon you mentioned would be at full anticipation before I was even done reading your note...
Riverview MI			Username hidden (87 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	PG I'm in total agreement with you on the male halves of couples and bi women being pushy. I wish our club would take a note from yours and give "select" status to certain single men like Jax ;) I, personally, love the "meet market" aspect of the local club lol!!!!! For us, it's almost a guaranteed waste of our time to make a "date" with someone we haven't met before. Too many flakes, late cancellations or just plain no-shows. That's why the club scene is perfect for meeting new playmates for us. I would NEVER go into the mens room or engage in heavy pda with someone in a public place, just not my style.
Newark DE			Username hidden (33 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Us, we prefer to not attend most so called "lifestyle" events, money is not the reason. We'd rather meet outside, at a nice bar with top shelf liquor, where we can actually dress nicely. Maybe even a jazz bar. We've experienced the on-premise club scene. It isn't really our thing. For example, an ideal evening with Jax would be meeting him at a martini bar, spend a little while, sipping on our drinks and getting to know each other. At some point I'd slip Jax a note that says meet me in the man's room. Where of course, I'd explore his oral skills while pressing myself into his hardon :). From there, we'd just take it to a hotel room... These swing parties, clubs are more of a meet market type of a thing, to us. We're more, a less noisy duo, so to speak.
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12258 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	what our club does is SM's are always welcome on Friday nights and on the first Saturday. Then they can get "select" (for lack of a better word) status. Which basically means they have shown themselves to be guys we really like having around. or a couple can always bring one in as long as they are a member. Our club also doesn't charge triple the amount for SM's. Now as a single male friendly couple I wish there was a better system. I've had more problems with male halves of couples and the bi ladies then I ever had with the SM's. PG
Louisville KY			Username hidden (13981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Exactly, I won't go to a lot of events (at least not as a single) simply because of the price. Pardon the pun, but I can get more bang for my buck elsewhere without feeling like I'm the only one at the party getting fleeced. Now I completely understand the need to keep the single male price point high to avoid an overpopulation of SM's but I just wish there was a better way to identify and discount HQSM's.
Riverview MI			Username hidden (87 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We're going to a VERY on premise club tomorrow, then going home with our favorite swinging couple for the night. It's win-win situation! :)
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2721 post)

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