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Fred I'm sure it is my witty remarks and my intellect that keeps it so interesting. Pictures of the toughest most gorgeous, sweet hearted creature the world has ever seen have nothing to do with it (I am smart enough to know that last statement is subjective to all husbands that love their wives) so I will forge a head lol

You guys take a beating on here. We have only been swinging for 6 years but we have had a blast but not once have I had to line out a single guy I can't say the same for couples and SF. I must have pervert or severe fetish stamped on my forehead that only SMs can see lol. They have all deferred to me although they haven't all pleased my Baby but they all have treated her well but kinds like you said I'll deal with the pricks as they come

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fred - I agree generalizations and mass stereotyping are not called for. I specifically look for single guys to play with one on one or in an MFM with hubby. It is our thing and I love it when I find a quality single guy - and there are many wonderful single guys out there. I just wish a few of them lived closer to me as it gets very time consuming flying all over the country to meet them. We have met our share of duds, but that is the same with couple and single females. We have also met some absolutely wonderful men that have become part of some of my treasured memories. I absolutely adore playing with quality single men and I want to encourage more of them into the lifestyle!

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@ cougar I agree 100% just cause I don't like a certain brand name if bread am I gonna stop eating bread? No I'm just gonna keep looking till I find a brand of bread I like. I think it is funny when people out no single males in their profile, but dont block single males and then complain about them mailing them. Couples should know by now us single males don't read we just look at the pictures of the ladies and then start emailing. Lol . Charlie you keep a lot if forums interesting with your responses or maybe it's the pictures of your wife. Lol if people would just relax and let a little water run off their back they would have fun.

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@fred. It's all the tolerance in the swinging community

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fred, well put. no one here speaks for the masses.

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This thread cracks me up because it puts out a generalization of single men. Each persons or couples experiences or beliefs are their owns, subjective and can't be lumped into one group because they are unique to them. That would be like some one saying " couples treat single men like garbage". I have no problem with the way the couples I have met have treated me. They have all been nice and showed me respect. If I was to have a bad experience with the way a couple treated me would that justify me saying how come there are no good couples on here? No I would just chalk it up to that one individual experience. What really cracks me up the most on here is the single guys with the pity party for themselves. " I'm not like the rest", or ". Nice guys finish last" lol. Finding a good match takes time and effort. So when people coma in about no good single guys, girls or couples that is their personal beliefs and doesn't speak for the masses even though some people think they speak for the masses.

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To the OP

It would be nice to live in a part of the country where the lifestyle clubs are even receptive to single men. Or the groups holding meet and greets for that matter. I would be more than willing to interview for an opportunity like that. To show that I know how to be presentable and respectful, and that I can carry on a conversation comfortably with lots of different people. I tend to "show" better in person than on line.

Sadly where I live this is not the case. most groups have names like "NWCBF" which means 'Northwest Couples and Bi-Females" (self explanatory) or are otherwise clear about having no interest in single men. So my interactions Have been one on one, with couples mostly. Not complaining mind you, it's been great. But some time I would like to experience a larger group setting. I'm hoping one day to be invited to a house party by one of my new lifestyle friends...

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And I can say with 100% surety that I have met the gentleman below, and I approve of his message.

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im a real nice guy and im right here waiting to have some fun with like minded people no bs no drama....polite and respectful

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@Sin. Hey that's a cool abbreviation lol. You little fuckers are everywhere lol. My Baby and I reserve the right to veto the others playmates. We call it the no jerk no turbo bitch rule. Original huh? In 6 years we have yet to use it. Except I did once we have a vanilla friend that wants to fuck Ms. Cougar so bad.It's hard to mix the 2 worlds especially since I work for him and he is married. Also my baby doesn't want him . He knows we swing

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