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Njny, I was only referring to this thread, you and others I have engaged privately have been most pleasant. I wish there would be more participation from that crowd, but I fully understand the hesitation.

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no such thing. :) <-------------

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Nice sav

Welcome to the sandbox new dude

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@All, you seem well educated, but almost to the point of sounding like an attorney in a court room. that is not a slam, just an observation, and you will find many women here who are extremely turned on by true intellectuals. no offense was intended, just a lame attempt at humor. you'll also find i lose no sleep over the thought of anyone losing respect for me, whether based on my silly attempts at humor or my opinions. but if i offended you, it wasn't my intention, and i apologize.

finally, i'm not sure what you consider a "genuine welcome" to be, but if memory serves, i was pretty sure that Fun Ahoy and i both welcomed you, and there may have been others. either way, i hope you'll stick around, but you're going to need a little thicker skin if you do. lighten up bro. it's all good.

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*rolling eyes* yeesh short memories. i gave you an official welcome after your first post which was in a different thread.

maybe that didn't count because i am not a member of the male bastion--who knows?--or you plumb forgot. that's okay, just thought i'd remind you that you did receive a genuine welcome to the fora.

as for the subject matter under discussion: i rarely attend clubs, of any kind, due to the inability of many (but not all) of our species (M, F, coupled, single) to behave with manners/decorum pleasing to me. i always attend with a friend or more--there *is* relative safety in numbers.

i have this feeling that it wouldn't matter the venue or the management, just not my scene.

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Popcorn. Must have popcorn.

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Smooth you can't say shit like this:

he's going to be perfect for the "i need someone to fuck my mind before fucking my pussy" crowd. if he sticks around. and if he does stick around and it turns out he's not a jackwad, i'm going to bump this thread and say, "dood, look how you used to talk when you first came to the forums."

And then claim you're not trying to pick a fight, up until that post I actually did have some respect for you, but now you admitted you intend to stalk me. I'm sorry, but you are "that guy"

I didn't start this thread, and I didn't take the first swing, nor did I nibble on every baiting attempt thrown my way. I did however defend myself with an equal attitude that was first given to me. Then guys like you say "hey new guy, you're not allowed to can't defend your position"

I think I've been reasonably clear with my position, what's not clear is what position the antagonists have? It seems like their purpose is to find the chink in the armor, but to what end? Just to one up the guy standing next to him? Seems kinda juvenile to me and very much supports things I've been saying all along. We men are our own worst enemy in those regards.

Five days into it and I just got the first legitimate welcome from yondude, thank you by the way.

If I'm out of line for being honest as a new guy, then aren't seasoned veterans of the forums equally accountable to welcome newcomers? Or should i expect hostility like this at clubs too? This will be what ever you choose to make it, I offer friendship, if people choose of their own free will to be my adversary I will honor that decision. But in any case I will not become a doormat simply because my brand of truth makes some folks uncomfortable.

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Fully agree with what Shesmooth is saying. The majority of people in the forum have been nothing but gracious and fair from the day I got here. I did share the uneasy feeling early on about what I wrongly perceived as a SM stigma. However my experiences have been for the most part very positive. Some will still harbor mistrust and that's understandable. However I've gone to M&G where I simply enjoyed drinks and laughter and was welcomed into some incredibly fun scenarios. Not because I was following couples around or pawing at women. It was because I could conduct myself as an adult and carry a conversation. Basically behave as I would want someone to behave. Play has occurred which is great but more importantly I've made friends beyond that. Best of luck in your time here.


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ok, i never thought i'd see myself type this, but where the hell is "the racer" when we need him. i so need to see these two together in the same thread.

@Allthegoodnamesrtaken, i'm still trying to figure out if you are completely serious. i can assure you that the title of this thread is in no way indicative of the majority opinion on single males in the LS and especially as it pertains to the SM's who frequent these pages. i don't know if it is deliberate or not, but your demeanor here is quite condescending in a very, "i'm here to show all these loser SM's how it's really done."

i don't know how they do things on whatever other site you may have been on prior to 5 days ago when you joined this one, but i can assure you, you'll find plenty of "coupled" guys around here who would never feel threatened by you or any other SM. the cool thing about most of the ones who participate in these forums, is that they have no need or desire to try to intimidate anyone. believe what you want, but they are first, not given to that kind of immature behavior, and second, smart enough to know how counter productive that kind of nonsense would be.

this is not to say that there are not plenty of SM's who still have a few things to learn, but you seem to be making a lot of judgments about a group of people you know very little about. i'm not trying to fight with you, just trying to understand what you're saying as well as why you're saying it. that's all.

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"either you are "that guy" or you like having him around so you don't feel threatened..."

Not in the slightest. Respectful and fun people - couples or singles - are what we like. If the assholes run the roost I - and especially my wife - don't wanna go anymore.

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