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TOPIC: Why So Few Nice Single Men
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JustCurious,

What exactly have you proven? Is it that someone...a SM...has to stand up and shout, I'm Spartacus!!?

Honestly, if you'd read the OP, and read what Current wrote, you'd understand that he was referencing the comment from the OP regarding the three men he saw during he and his wife's club visit. I'd venture a guess that Current's comment was specific to the "one" who appeared to not have cleaned himself up in quite some time. I find that pretty creepy, but maybe that's just me? Current also used the term stalking, not stalker. There's a difference.

Claiming victory in your third forum post, while sporting a profile that's 12 days old, with no open photos, and lastly...yes, a pet peeve of mine... dropping a typo in your post while dressing down another poster, won't endear you to many folks here.

Swingers can smell bull shit from a mile away and nothing screams it like a newbie SM telling others how they should act.

That said, welcome to the forums. Read up. Ask questions. Tell us about your dates, the parties you attend. Post about what you're learning. Write about the good, the bad, and the ugly. Brag a little when the time comes...I did/do, as did/does Mr. Scamp. Lastly, show that you have a human side vs. acting like a forum white knight.

Oh, and most importantly, have fun.

None of the SM I know here became successful by disparaging other SMs. None.

Mr. A...aka BT

-Striving to one day be the man my dog thinks I am...

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Dear Current Rider, Who posted a damn thing about creeper stalkers? Really? Cmon stick to the original post there is enough hyper bole going around without one of my gender spreading more.

My point has been proven.

D.

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The men you described could not get into the LS clubs that we attend. I would think maybe you should try a venue that has dress code and higher expectations of their customers.

Spring TX
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"Be the man your dog thinks you are", I like that.

Dover DE
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Pretty much every SM who has ever posted in the fora starts by proclaiming not to one of "them". Actions speak louder than words guys so the proof is in how you treat people, not in how loudly you claim to be better than the rest.

To paraphrase one of the most successful SM posters, "Be the man your dog thinks you are".

~scamp

New Orleans LA
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I'm with BLT on this one.

I don't get to take credit for George Clooney's looks, Bruce Springsteen's musical ability, or Marshawn Lynch's athleticism.....so why would I want to take responsibility for some creeper's stalking just because I share a gender with him?

Wenatchee WA
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We have met some very nice single guys and although we only see couples they continue to be friendly, however only a few single males act badly, which makes it hard for the single guys who are nice to meet couples and ladies.

El Paso TX
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LRHot, Thank you. Logic prevails Rick

Downey CA
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Jc, the only people who should "take responsibility" for the assholes are the assholes themselves. As for the good guys, keep it up (no pun intended!) Honestly, I find it hard to believe that these "assholes" are a surprise. If we vet our dates and pay attention, we shouldn't have too many surprises. There are assholes in every culture and subculture. I'd venture to say many a coupled asshole is fortunate enough to be buffered/balanced by a desirable female. Put those same assholes on the street alone and they'd suffer quite a shortage of action. But then again, what the hell do I know? I'm a crazy bitch female, right?

New Orleans LA
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BLT2last,

Great response to my post, but I do disagree with your stance on the subject of other SM's apologizing or making excuses for the jerkoff SM, here's why.

Someone from our gender needs to take responsibility for the dickheads that turn husbands and wives off to the idea of playing with SM's and show that not all of us are shitheads.

So I will continue trying to improve the reputation of the genuine polyamorous or swinger single male in hopes that the tarnishment by other can in time be undone.

Thanks for posting your thoughts on the topic.

D.

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