Why So Few Nice Single Men: Swingers Discussion 21527710111

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User Details are only visible to members.	one of the clubs we go to here has wristbands for those interested in single males. However I've yet to wear one while there, one reason is we went there twice both times with the plans to meet up with a guy I had been talking to on line, we met up clicked, played. The other reason is I would rather make the choice to approach.
Louisville KY			Username hidden (14171 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think the problem is the perception us single men have of couples. In Alabama where I am from, only one out of fifty couples welcome single men as playmates. Most couples around here are looking for single women and sometimes other couples, therefore we single guys, when at a social/club do not know who we can approach. Maybe we need to develop some type of sign or something that will let others know if the lady is approachable, maybe a blue ribbon if open to single men, a pink ribbon if open to women and one of each if open to single women or men and crossed blue and pink ribbon if only open to other couples. If guys know women will be there and be open to their advances believe me they will show up, or at least I will and the rest can stay home and give me a better chance, lol.
Shoal Creek AL			Username hidden (1 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	" Also it seems they expect the lady to come to them and ask them to daance or talk to them." that might be part of the clubs rules. Some clubs have strict rules about single males approaching couples. There are some very nice single males out there, you just have to find them sometimes it takes awhile ;)
Louisville KY			Username hidden (14171 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sounds like the OP needs to find a new club or invite a guy you pick out from the site to meet you at your club so you aren't risking being disappointed.
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11420 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	And don't laugh, but I think I found the best cologne ever!! Lol I have many of the popular colognes that I like to wear, But phone one in particular that whenever I go out I always get compliments from It. So needless to say it's now my favorite cologne. Lol A good cologne or perfume on a person can really change the situation. :)
Greenfield WI			Username hidden (6 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I hate when that happens!
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12720 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I'm sure there are many reasons and many factors. And I think and less you guys talk a lot before hand and really understand what you guys are looking for, It could create awkward situation. Some couples I'm sure would like a very aggressive confident man, Other couples may want a polite courteous gentleman That will allow them to control the situation and make the first move. I'm just trying to speak from common sense and not experience here because I've never met anybody out yet. But if I were to meet with a couple it would most likely be to fulfill fantasies of theirs. So with that said, I would feel somewhat responsible to give them the experience that they want. Meaning, If they want an aggressive confident or cocky man I can give them that, Or if they want a very shy quiets submissive man I could give them that too. But I'm one of those people that is very open likes to have fun and can pretty much adapt to any situation I'm a great people person.
Greenfield WI			Username hidden (6 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We have belonged to several lifestyle clubs and it seems there are so few polite well dressed sober single men that ever come out. Many times there are husbands there that have wives that are hot for strange cock and the singlemen that are there sit at the bar and only get drunker. Also it seems they expect the lady to come to them and ask them to daance or talk to them. We were at a lifestyle club last weekend and of the three men there, One was drunk when he got there and another was covered from hear to toe with tatoos and looked like he had not cleaned up in months and the other guy was dressed in cutoffs and sandles. The women at our table were talking about how they dress up sexy and pretty and in comes guys thst look like hell. It seems that most singlemen are lookng for a lady but from their actions and looks it is not hard to see why they are alone. My Wife always looks super and she loves to dance, But few men wear nice colone and show her respect after they are half drunk. We had several years ago gone to an upscale culb and wife and I were sitting on a couch watching others dance when I noticed a man about our age watching us. My wife was showing a lot of leg and I turned and spoke to him and he sit on the other side of my wife. He ask her to dance and they were talking when I noticed his hand on her knee. With him being repsectful and polite He asked me if we would like to go to the party room. His luck was very good that night as my wife fucked him for over two hours and enjoyed ever minute of it. Men should consider that couples come to clubs for fun and when the right single man shows up things can get great for him and the couple. Stay sober and use your head.
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