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TOPIC: Why So Few Nice Single Men
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I swore I was never going to write about this but I just can't resist now.

I had a date with a SM who was chatting me up in the forums. I tell him where to meet me and prior to our date, I ask him what he likes to drink so I have this waiting for him at the bar when he arrives (paid for in advance) while I sip on a non-alcoholic beer. He arrives a few minutes late which is cool as he does come a distance. He is really handsome, totally flat stomach which I love, dressed casual but professional. Within 5 minutes, I kid you not, I know I am gonna fuck him. So he orders some food and another drink. I order nothing as it's too late for me to eat but he insists that I share some of his food so I do as I am not the food police and I love the fact that he has a good appetite. So, it's his first time in Vero and since he has had a couple I drive him in my car to show him the beach, etc. On the way back to get his ride I suggest he come to my apt. He agrees and follows me. As soon as I get inside my place, I am naked, being a nudist at heart. I direct him to the guest bathroom which has everything he could want and I wait for him to come out and he does in his shirt and underwear so I ask "are you shy?"...LOL..He says no and I ask can I kiss you he says yes we do and it's good. I've been ready so I say where are the condoms? He says he didn't think we were going to do anything so he doesn't have any. I say, no problem I have them.....problem, even after I begin to go down on him and agree to his 69 request which position is not one of my favorites, his fucking dick couldn't maintain an erection. After what seems like endless trying, I look at the clock and suggest he leave as he has a long drive home. Next day, I go to certify his ass and he blocks me from his page. He commented that I was a type A personality so I guess he didn't like that. I could care less.

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Thanks -Fun-

Bonneau SC
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Lol, Racer is now an expert on single men too. Good stuff.

Belle Chasse LA
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Quality Single Men with the slightest bit of long term companionship skills are quickly snatched up! Besides, what constitutes the word "Single"???...... Not married? If they are of quality.....SM or SF.......then I can guarantee that someone thinks of them as NON single!!.........(meaning their GF or BF). Soooooo many " single " guys on this site!.........trust me they are cheating and would screw anything that moves due to their desperation........because just by the nature of being Single Male.......means they are not gonna have steady sex.

Financially secure Single women simply do NOT **need** a man, they may DESIRE A PERSON who happens to be a man........or a woman. For Financially secure Alpha women..........they could care less about what, if anything is dangling between your legs. A quality PERSON is what these women are after.........NOT a cock. I've seen it hundreds of times.......Janet's strap-on cock is just as good if not better than mine. Chicks only dig me for the suave, cool romantic devil that I am.

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"They talk big but we know there a bunch of insecure asses that want too bar single men from a party then allow single women in for free. then you go too the events and hot date section and you see all this you have been blocked in huge letters on all the pages as if this is something your suppose too do if your a couple"

Maybe they just don't like their ass or their grammar pounded. Sorry if that makes me come off as an ass, but I had too.

Belle Chasse LA
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I just read poundyourass' profile and got the impression he is an internet troll. Could be wrong.

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Poundyourass presents a compelling case why we choose to pay our way, parties, hotels, dinners etc....we never have to feel as if we're obliged or owe anyone anything.

Rumson NJ
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If a SM conducts themselves in a civil and courteous manner, they will find all the single male disclosures will not apply to them.

Melbourne FL
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Poundyourass: As the topic asks why so few nice single men? The key being NICE Single Men. There are tons of SM profiles and a lot of them are not actually single and the other half don't have the balls to actually show up. Although I dislike the amount that SM's are charged to attend clubs or events, I do believe that it is somewhat needed. For example, in my area there are always plenty of events posted and there are usually a ton of SM'S signed up. Now if the SM'S were paying the same as couples there would likely be even twice as many SM'S signed up to attend. I personally chose not to attend clubs or events as a single male and only attend public meet and greets as a single male and would never attend with the expectation of having sex. There are a lot of guys out there that join this or similar sites thinking its a quick get laid type of thing and that's not really the case. Reading through the forums one can read about the rude, crude behavior being displayed by a lot of the SM'S at some of these clubs or events and understand the question why so few NICE single men. So it is easy to understand why SM'S have gotten a bad rap. Does it kinda suck YES but that is the reality.

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Pretty much what she said. Also Poundyourass as a screen name probably won't make a good impression. I'm not particularly a prude (or bi) but that screen name just screams "NO CLASS".

As for events I would suggest lining up a couple to meet at the event before hand. That will raise your potential for having a good time.

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