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Smooth you can't say shit like this:

he's going to be perfect for the "i need someone to fuck my mind before fucking my pussy" crowd. if he sticks around. and if he does stick around and it turns out he's not a jackwad, i'm going to bump this thread and say, "dood, look how you used to talk when you first came to the forums."

And then claim you're not trying to pick a fight, up until that post I actually did have some respect for you, but now you admitted you intend to stalk me. I'm sorry, but you are "that guy"

I didn't start this thread, and I didn't take the first swing, nor did I nibble on every baiting attempt thrown my way. I did however defend myself with an equal attitude that was first given to me. Then guys like you say "hey new guy, you're not allowed to can't defend your position"

I think I've been reasonably clear with my position, what's not clear is what position the antagonists have? It seems like their purpose is to find the chink in the armor, but to what end? Just to one up the guy standing next to him? Seems kinda juvenile to me and very much supports things I've been saying all along. We men are our own worst enemy in those regards.

Five days into it and I just got the first legitimate welcome from yondude, thank you by the way.

If I'm out of line for being honest as a new guy, then aren't seasoned veterans of the forums equally accountable to welcome newcomers? Or should i expect hostility like this at clubs too? This will be what ever you choose to make it, I offer friendship, if people choose of their own free will to be my adversary I will honor that decision. But in any case I will not become a doormat simply because my brand of truth makes some folks uncomfortable.

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Fully agree with what Shesmooth is saying. The majority of people in the forum have been nothing but gracious and fair from the day I got here. I did share the uneasy feeling early on about what I wrongly perceived as a SM stigma. However my experiences have been for the most part very positive. Some will still harbor mistrust and that's understandable. However I've gone to M&G where I simply enjoyed drinks and laughter and was welcomed into some incredibly fun scenarios. Not because I was following couples around or pawing at women. It was because I could conduct myself as an adult and carry a conversation. Basically behave as I would want someone to behave. Play has occurred which is great but more importantly I've made friends beyond that. Best of luck in your time here.


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ok, i never thought i'd see myself type this, but where the hell is "the racer" when we need him. i so need to see these two together in the same thread.

@Allthegoodnamesrtaken, i'm still trying to figure out if you are completely serious. i can assure you that the title of this thread is in no way indicative of the majority opinion on single males in the LS and especially as it pertains to the SM's who frequent these pages. i don't know if it is deliberate or not, but your demeanor here is quite condescending in a very, "i'm here to show all these loser SM's how it's really done."

i don't know how they do things on whatever other site you may have been on prior to 5 days ago when you joined this one, but i can assure you, you'll find plenty of "coupled" guys around here who would never feel threatened by you or any other SM. the cool thing about most of the ones who participate in these forums, is that they have no need or desire to try to intimidate anyone. believe what you want, but they are first, not given to that kind of immature behavior, and second, smart enough to know how counter productive that kind of nonsense would be.

this is not to say that there are not plenty of SM's who still have a few things to learn, but you seem to be making a lot of judgments about a group of people you know very little about. i'm not trying to fight with you, just trying to understand what you're saying as well as why you're saying it. that's all.

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"either you are "that guy" or you like having him around so you don't feel threatened..."

Not in the slightest. Respectful and fun people - couples or singles - are what we like. If the assholes run the roost I - and especially my wife - don't wanna go anymore.

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I think I see a pattern devolving, either you are "that guy" or you like having him around so you don't feel threatened...

Tonight I'm going to a non-swinging club where I will be greatly outnumbered by attractive women who value the fact that I have the courage to get on the dance floor with them, even with my two left feet. I will make a point to grab a girl on the sidelines and get her involved. My date will be proud to be seen with me, and other women will envy her, I will make some new friends and we will have fun that might extend beyond that. It will cost me the same as her, and my presence will be valued.

I made a mistake; by the tone of posters here, it seems men and women actually are content with the SM choices at the club after all. But if you're part of the minority, feel free to get in touch and we'll do it my way. What have you got to lose? You might just enjoy the change of pace, and you can always go back to the Jr. High mentality any time.

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Agree. In the grand scheme life is too short.


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Right BLT. It will all be a big ball of ice in a few billion years anyway.

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Frankly, on reflection, it's not that important.

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Fun,

Please make sure that its available in large print for the senior swingers among us.

BT

He can explain it to you, but he can't understand it for you

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BLT, there is a series of elementary summaries on hundreds of topics, known as the "For Dummies" books. Internet For Dummies, Yoga For Dummies, etc. 

When you ask for an elementary summary of a thread with over 430 posts in it, that's what you're asking for. 

I'm thinking of writing a new book.  Tentative title is "Mrs. Sav's Posts For Dummies" 

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