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TOPIC: Why So Few Nice Single Men
Created by: satwo
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We have belonged to several lifestyle clubs and it seems there are so few polite well dressed sober single men that ever come out. Many times there are husbands there that have wives that are hot for strange cock and the singlemen that are there sit at the bar and only get drunker. Also it seems they expect the lady to come to them and ask them to daance or talk to them. We were at a lifestyle club last weekend and of the three men there, One was drunk when he got there and another was covered from hear to toe with tatoos and looked like he had not cleaned up in months and the other guy was dressed in cutoffs and sandles. The women at our table were talking about how they dress up sexy and pretty and in comes guys thst look like hell. It seems that most singlemen are lookng for a lady but from their actions and looks it is not hard to see why they are alone. My Wife always looks super and she loves to dance, But few men wear nice colone and show her respect after they are half drunk. We had several years ago gone to an upscale culb and wife and I were sitting on a couch watching others dance when I noticed a man about our age watching us. My wife was showing a lot of leg and I turned and spoke to him and he sit on the other side of my wife. He ask her to dance and they were talking when I noticed his hand on her knee. With him being repsectful and polite He asked me if we would like to go to the party room. His luck was very good that night as my wife fucked him for over two hours and enjoyed ever minute of it. Men should consider that couples come to clubs for fun and when the right single man shows up things can get great for him and the couple. Stay sober and use your head.

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Single men are single for a reason. Sometimes those reasons are the WTF do you think your doing and don't respect themselves, which then rejects in how they interact with woman and/or couples.

I live my life as a Buddhist, which means redirecting the Buddha nature inherent in all living beings. That being said, use your own system, but use it in a way that fosters respect and receives respect. Boy the CAN OF CRAZY dates I have been on. You couples can be just as bad, as the single guy is for you.... Hence screening and getting to know the guy.....

BUT in a club it is different. Escourted males with a couple weed out most shits, but if a night any single guy can go, well it imparts different energy in the club. Hence I like a couple with escorted singles club that limits. It is hard to get into, but well worth it for all that are at the club.

Well there is my two cents as a single guy looking to give and receive a hell of a fun time....

Wilmington NC
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most of them are not single, just rude married guys whom want to spoil real singles from having a good time.

Bradford Canada
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Not all single men are losers. I think folks the don't send a reply to an email are the problem. Some of us are very nice, polite and cool but get jaded by the ones we contact.

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We could not agree more.. we have run across rude, overbearing and just plain jerks. However we have also run into a few SELECT single males who are classy, smell good, and above all treat us both with respect in the lifestyle. They are the ones we play with and I go out on special dates with them. Some couples we have run into want to discuss what people we have been playing with and do we have a fascination with BBC.. are you kidding me, like our profile states good people are good people.. we find out that those who do talk about such stuff are in fact BIGOTS and PREJUDICE ! Some guys also have lied about who they are and what they are into. Some are just plain picture collectors and especially they want videos only to sell them to porn sites. when me and my husband go out .. we dress to please with nice clothes and always are well groomed and smell good. Its like dating all over again.. and those who don't... just don't get it or what we want. Its funny but just look at some of these profiles and photos.. nothing exciting, poorly written and just check out the clothes or lack of clothes they wear! Not for us.

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wkendfun is spot on. As many varieties of taste as there are, simply keep looking; it works both ways as well. Clear communication paves the way for clarity and great fun times. Enjoy!

Wilmington NC
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There are many nice single males out there, but the one problem many have as myself is where I live , as an exsample just received a e-mail from a sexy lady from plily usa ,saying it is to bad we live in different countrys would love to meet you, but unable to travel to you , the chance of not able to meet you if you travel here to meet me. But still I am willing, to travel to meet ,but are you.

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We know this is an old thread but to the OP..all we can say is you're going to the wrong club. We go to many clubs and have not seen much of this. In a blue moon a single male will step in that fits what you describe but to be honest with you we have found just as many males of a couple that fit this description also.

Go try another club

Sort of like a restaurant......if you can't find what you want or like on the menu..go to another restaurant, dept store, doctors office, etc etc etc

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Thank you to both of you wonderful people

Charlie

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Cougar82 - SMH means Shaking My Head, but with Nic, it may not mean the big head mounted to his shoulders - and he may not be shaking it out of frustration :)

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Charlie,

smh means shaking my head

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TOPIC: Why So Few Nice Single Men