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TOPIC: Why So Few Nice Single Men
Created by: satwo
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We have belonged to several lifestyle clubs and it seems there are so few polite well dressed sober single men that ever come out. Many times there are husbands there that have wives that are hot for strange cock and the singlemen that are there sit at the bar and only get drunker. Also it seems they expect the lady to come to them and ask them to daance or talk to them. We were at a lifestyle club last weekend and of the three men there, One was drunk when he got there and another was covered from hear to toe with tatoos and looked like he had not cleaned up in months and the other guy was dressed in cutoffs and sandles. The women at our table were talking about how they dress up sexy and pretty and in comes guys thst look like hell. It seems that most singlemen are lookng for a lady but from their actions and looks it is not hard to see why they are alone. My Wife always looks super and she loves to dance, But few men wear nice colone and show her respect after they are half drunk. We had several years ago gone to an upscale culb and wife and I were sitting on a couch watching others dance when I noticed a man about our age watching us. My wife was showing a lot of leg and I turned and spoke to him and he sit on the other side of my wife. He ask her to dance and they were talking when I noticed his hand on her knee. With him being repsectful and polite He asked me if we would like to go to the party room. His luck was very good that night as my wife fucked him for over two hours and enjoyed ever minute of it. Men should consider that couples come to clubs for fun and when the right single man shows up things can get great for him and the couple. Stay sober and use your head.

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@Randy: I know what you're saying which is why as you stated in another post, communication is key. If you have a lot going on, perhaps that is not the best time to meet a new potential FWB. As the saying goes, you only get one chance to make a good first impression. I find it amusing for a SM to talk about taking it slow....LOL...I am cool with that unless I find him extraordinarily attractive. Remember, LS women, not all, but some are not looking for all those warm feel good moments. They are looking to handle their business and if you can't, move out the way. That's real talk.

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Sometimes we are just as stressed out as anyone. But we like the women and try to keep them happy. Just give us a break, and we like it in a not rushed situation also. Some of us are skilled in many ways too. Give us a chance. Sometime my job can be a bitch too, just like others. Lets talk and go from there.

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Water does something to me. It seems like I have a Damascus experience while bathing thinking about these posts.

There is a lot of sexual dysfunction going on. Why do you think Viagra, Cialis, etc. spends so much money on commercials. SM should have enough insight into their well being to know whether or not they can satisfy a woman. Women, can't speak for all, but this woman, if I spend my time preparing to meet you, I am expecting you to perform. This is SLS, not some dating sight where women are looking to become your gf so they are probably willing to put up with sexual dysfunction. LS women, at least this one, isn't going to invest that kind of time in someone unless they have a true desire to have a long term relationship. I often wonder why so many SM can never bring a date to a threesome. The men I've known who have invited me to participate in successful threesomes come with a dick that can get erect and maintain that erection with a condom. I am done here before I am accused of LWS.

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Clorox?

Fun likes to keep his vessel sterile.

Whoosh!

BT

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BT: How can someone lose their wood in your presence when (a) he got one, for about a minute and (b) was unable to maintain it. What are you implying? No, it wasn't a threesome. What's not so nice about this individual is that he was so effusive with praise about me. It's not my problem that he wasn't able to perform. I would have given him another shot -- another time -- then to block me from your page. That's a bitch ass. I dodged a bullet.

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"I raise a glass of red wine to this poster,"

I'll drink to that. But make mine Clorox on the rocks. With a twist.

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TMF, I love women like that too, and as Fun said, great story. One question, was there a third person hiding in the closet?

I'm just trying to figure out if this was a threesome, like the thread Threesomes:Why So Few Nice Men indicates, or just another of BLT's misdirected FBs/rants about guys losing their wood in her presence? Seems like I've heard that song before.

In lieu of a cogent explanation, I anticipate a Fuck You BT will be forthcoming.

I raise a glass of red wine to this poster, only because its good for you.

Cheers,

BT

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BLT I love women who do the sort of thing you describe. Talk about tearing up jack. Women who know what they want sexually (or otherwise) is a big turn on for me. My impression is a lot of guys just don't have the confidence to stand up to that.

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Cool story.

Belle Chasse LA
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Racer had some home truths in his most recent foray into the fora.

as for "poundyourass"--sorry dude, the screen name alone is a disqualifier for me. that was the first or uppermost thought in your mind when creating your profile? nope. as TMF mentioned, it just screams NO thank you.

good luck to you!

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TOPIC: Why So Few Nice Single Men