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TOPIC: Why_So_Few_Nice_Single_Men
Created by: satwo
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We have belonged to several lifestyle clubs and it seems there are so few polite well dressed sober single men that ever come out. Many times there are husbands there that have wives that are hot for strange cock and the singlemen that are there sit at the bar and only get drunker. Also it seems they expect the lady to come to them and ask them to daance or talk to them. We were at a lifestyle club last weekend and of the three men there, One was drunk when he got there and another was covered from hear to toe with tatoos and looked like he had not cleaned up in months and the other guy was dressed in cutoffs and sandles. The women at our table were talking about how they dress up sexy and pretty and in comes guys thst look like hell. It seems that most singlemen are lookng for a lady but from their actions and looks it is not hard to see why they are alone. My Wife always looks super and she loves to dance, But few men wear nice colone and show her respect after they are half drunk. We had several years ago gone to an upscale culb and wife and I were sitting on a couch watching others dance when I noticed a man about our age watching us. My wife was showing a lot of leg and I turned and spoke to him and he sit on the other side of my wife. He ask her to dance and they were talking when I noticed his hand on her knee. With him being repsectful and polite He asked me if we would like to go to the party room. His luck was very good that night as my wife fucked him for over two hours and enjoyed ever minute of it. Men should consider that couples come to clubs for fun and when the right single man shows up things can get great for him and the couple. Stay sober and use your head.

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That's an awesome point KellyJean, because it's something we all have to be

reminded of, to be self-reminding is recommended, before we're about to walk into an experience that could completely change our perception of future experiences to come after that. The fact that we never expect to have a bad experience they just kind of happen, along with the fact that bad experiences that occurr between yourself and other people often contain debate regarding fault I'd guess are some of why we hold on to confrontations or bad experiences a little longer than usual.

And it's why we ought to all be trying to make the good memories unforgettable so they last forever!

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I don't think there are so few.

According to WebMD:

"...It turns out that remembering the bad times just comes more naturally.

A new study suggests that we recall bad memories more easily and in greater detail than good ones for perhaps evolutionary reasons.

Researchers say this technique of preserving bad memories may have evolved as an evolutionary tactic to protect against future life-threatening or negative events."

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@peacelove: Your post is correct. I agree that many times the guys who make a bad impression causes there to be an indictment on all which is absolutely wrong. As in all things in my life, I attempt to move through life on a case-by-case basis. The attributes you mention are the foundation of a good experience in the LS or in life in general. I say, well done.

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I believe the being the single man makes for an easy target. It's so easy to do something wrong or for something to go haywire. When that happens hey, "Blame the single Man" is the old adage or ought to be, because that is how it is, sorry. A single man knows that we get that, at least the good ones as you say (like you know for sure who is a good one) realize what the dynamic is and will understand that scenario. So it's really a matter of what is what with whom, i.e. to know how this couple is or this person is going to be based on anything informative is a big factor.

SLS is a website that's about sex and people who are interested in exploring sharing and learning more about sexuality as well as mingling with like-minded people so it's ironic that some of the same old roadblocks exist in communities like this to a significant degree. It's also understandable and somewhat predictable, and that's why it's also understandable and predictable to hear some of the same clich├ęd responses/explanations and ideas and expectations from the mouths of just about anyone, on this site or otherwise when it comes to talking about what people want from their experience and what they think is the right way to be. There are some things that are universal and should be taken such like politeness, charm, and respect. I mean who would refute that once those things are achieved that just about anything could take place afterwards?

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I happen to believe the majority of single men are "nice guys" but fail to understand what the LS is all about. When they are new they assume this is a place to come to have sex with whomever they want, whenever they want. The young guys tend to think it's all about them (same as in IRL).

Now married men posing as single guys? They are a bigger problem IMHO. Less reliable because they are sneaking out and full of drama because they are hiding the truth.

~scamp

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@LaFrack: I agree with you wholeheartedly.

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The few nice single men who are out there are truly great guys. My formula in finding them is that they are not fake, and are an open book and willing to be friends first. When these men can hold a conversation about everything else other than sex while getting to know you first, then when you meet it is like an old friend. Everything else after that for me is more intense.

I also think that there are more than just a few nice single men, unfortunately the bad single men have given all men a bad name. I think that has added to the frustration of many single woman and couples and because of this they are missing out on good men. If given a chance to be learned about, the think the few nice single men would increase to many nice single men.

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My suggestion- follow a more playful route and have "I'm a nice single guy" printed on a football w/ a photo and 5 points stating exactly why.

It'll show'm all you're a good sport.

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I'm going to start driving around looking for those flags and surely hope I get handed a card at the club soon,

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Most of us have taken to printing cards with that on them. I have a flag too, that I fly next to the Stars and Stripes on the front of my house. Oh, I also have it as the announcement on my answering machine.

BT

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