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TOPIC: Why So Few Nice Single Men

Created by: satwo Original Starting post for this thread:
We have belonged to several lifestyle clubs and it seems there are so few polite well dressed sober single men that ever come out. Many times there are husbands there that have wives that are hot for strange cock and the singlemen that are there sit at the bar and only get drunker. Also it seems they expect the lady to come to them and ask them to daance or talk to them. We were at a lifestyle club last weekend and of the three men there, One was drunk when he got there and another was covered from hear to toe with tatoos and looked like he had not cleaned up in months and the other guy was dressed in cutoffs and sandles. The women at our table were talking about how they dress up sexy and pretty and in comes guys thst look like hell. It seems that most singlemen are lookng for a lady but from their actions and looks it is not hard to see why they are alone. My Wife always looks super and she loves to dance, But few men wear nice colone and show her respect after they are half drunk. We had several years ago gone to an upscale culb and wife and I were sitting on a couch watching others dance when I noticed a man about our age watching us. My wife was showing a lot of leg and I turned and spoke to him and he sit on the other side of my wife. He ask her to dance and they were talking when I noticed his hand on her knee. With him being repsectful and polite He asked me if we would like to go to the party room. His luck was very good that night as my wife fucked him for over two hours and enjoyed ever minute of it. Men should consider that couples come to clubs for fun and when the right single man shows up things can get great for him and the couple. Stay sober and use your head.

Created by: satwo
Original Starting post for this thread:

We have belonged to several lifestyle clubs and it seems there are so few polite well dressed sober single men that ever come out.
Many times there are husbands there that have wives that are hot for strange cock and the singlemen that are there sit at the bar and only get drunker. Also it seems they expect the lady to come to them and ask them to daance or talk to them.
We were at a lifestyle club last weekend and of the three men there, One was drunk when he got there and another was covered from hear to toe with tatoos and looked like he had not cleaned up in months and the other guy was dressed in cutoffs and sandles. The women at our table were talking about how they dress up sexy and pretty and in comes guys thst look like hell.
It seems that most singlemen are lookng for a lady but from their actions and looks it is not hard to see why they are alone. My Wife always looks super and she loves to dance, But few men wear nice colone and show her respect after they are half drunk.
We had several years ago gone to an upscale culb and wife and I were sitting on a couch watching others dance when I noticed a man about our age watching us. My wife was showing a lot of leg and I turned and spoke to him and he sit on the other side of my wife. He ask her to dance and they were talking when I noticed his hand on her knee. With him being repsectful and polite He asked me if we would like to go to the party room. His luck was very good that night as my wife fucked him for over two hours and enjoyed ever minute of it.
Men should consider that couples come to clubs for fun and when the right single man shows up things can get great for him and the couple. Stay sober and use your head.

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User Details are only visible to members.	I'm with Tim too... a confident man who can approach me with respect and assurance is sexy.
Visalia CA			Username hidden (4125 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I totally agree with Toptim. I'm not going to be interested unless we have hit it off in some way. It is a rare man who is so gorgeous that he can just lurk and have us approach him. Even if I did see that perfectly attractive guy, I would probably assume that he was not interested in me and Still not approach him.
Lubbock TX			Username hidden (263 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I don't know what you're talking about. Sitting around waiting for someone to talk to you will gain you absolutely nothing. I've been in clubs and seen other single men wandering around the room, lurking in corners, but never building up enough courage to go up to a couple and say hello. Those guys always leave alone. If I see someone I like, I go up and introduce myself and say hello. Sometimes there is a mutual attraction, and sometimes there isn't. But nobody has the hots for that guy sitting in a corner, nursing a drink by himself because he's too afraid to talk to anyone.
Hunt Valley MD			Username hidden (3552 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	its a tight rope you have to walk.I have had couples walk with inches of me and not say a word,not hi,how are you,or excuse me.so here is what Iam telling you.you see a single male that you would like to meet or get to know.walk up to him and say you would like to meet him or get to know him first.and when you see him the next time,say hi,how are you.and talk to him.if he really turns you on have him come over and set down and talk and get to know each other.he has to be invited.remember he is a single male in a couples club.if he don't know who is who or with who,it better to sit and watch and see who does what.like I said we are not mind readers.let US know.hope this anwserd your question.I have been in swinging for 40 years and still don't know it all.well ,more then I did the first year.............BS
Kingston TN			Username hidden (1925 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I anwsered this in another post.you say all the single men just set around and do nothing,like they are waiting for you to ask them.yes they are.if a single male say anything to anybody and they are not in to single males,they get upset that you even said anything at all to them.it very easy for a single male to get kick out of a club.however I have seen a male half of a couple touch,grab,pull,shove,a female and noting is done he cause is part of a couple.there are a lot of single men in swinging and at clubs.if you are interested go up to him and let him know.we are not mind readers.we don't want to offend anybody or get kick out,but we would like to get laid in a safe way with out a fight breaking out.here is some head up ,you see a female walking thru a club,right behind her is her husband,every where she goes he is there.he goes to the bathroom by him self.you talk to a female sitting by heself or walking around by herself and talk to her,you are taking advandage when he is not around.walk up to a female and start talking you are being pushe.walk up to a couple and start talking and you get insulted by the male
Kingston TN			Username hidden (1925 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	oh don't give up! note to self, check Troopers schedule for his next Atlanta trip...
Louisville KY			Username hidden (13987 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	PG- but, but, but.....she's hot. LOL. I don't think I've ever seen that excuse on married SM profile for why they stay married. ugh! Reason #23 why I have given up on my MFM. :-(
Alpharetta GA			Username hidden (919 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Single would be the key word here, the poster two down is not. PG
Louisville KY			Username hidden (13987 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"...most importantly show up when a meeting is set." We have busy work and family schedules so we sometimes have to schedule meetings 10 days - two weeks in advance. We're honest about this with SMs and let them know from the get go. First impressions are very important and a cancellation or no show indicates low integrity.
Alpharetta GA			Username hidden (919 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thank you! Don't be a stranger, come join the rest of us horny folks in the Open Forum.
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