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TOPIC: Why So Few Nice Single Men
Created by: satwo
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We have belonged to several lifestyle clubs and it seems there are so few polite well dressed sober single men that ever come out. Many times there are husbands there that have wives that are hot for strange cock and the singlemen that are there sit at the bar and only get drunker. Also it seems they expect the lady to come to them and ask them to daance or talk to them. We were at a lifestyle club last weekend and of the three men there, One was drunk when he got there and another was covered from hear to toe with tatoos and looked like he had not cleaned up in months and the other guy was dressed in cutoffs and sandles. The women at our table were talking about how they dress up sexy and pretty and in comes guys thst look like hell. It seems that most singlemen are lookng for a lady but from their actions and looks it is not hard to see why they are alone. My Wife always looks super and she loves to dance, But few men wear nice colone and show her respect after they are half drunk. We had several years ago gone to an upscale culb and wife and I were sitting on a couch watching others dance when I noticed a man about our age watching us. My wife was showing a lot of leg and I turned and spoke to him and he sit on the other side of my wife. He ask her to dance and they were talking when I noticed his hand on her knee. With him being repsectful and polite He asked me if we would like to go to the party room. His luck was very good that night as my wife fucked him for over two hours and enjoyed ever minute of it. Men should consider that couples come to clubs for fun and when the right single man shows up things can get great for him and the couple. Stay sober and use your head.

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No, not corny as far as we're concerned. I (the male half, the last time I peeked) have actually quoted Barney and paraphrased Robert Fulgrum's Everything I Need To Know About" book. Ok, admittedly, THAT was corny, but like a frequent BSC forum poster is fond of saying in her presently lucid state, it was "on point".

P.s.- I responded to your email, as well.

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I think it has to do with how they were raised. I know that sounds corny, but hear me out. I was raised by a grandfather that would always take his hat off speaking to a lady, whether it be the First Lady, or a whore ( no comments). He said yes ma'am and would hold doors. He might have not had on nice clothes, but they were clean and he looked sharp. Some single men act this way and have no problem being involved in groups, pairs, threesomes, and moresomes. I'm surprised all the time by the actions of younger people, men and women alike. They never learned how to treat people. Many single dudes think any women at a club would gladly take them, so why try. Just make them come to you. Or, they get a "I'll walk around like the king cock" seeing if a woman will respond to them. At least it seems to be the attitude of some. Thus endeth the rant. Lol

Richland Hills TX
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Hello Honest and nice guy here. I'm for real. Lets chat

Sabattus ME
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I can see that fred has no problems as a single male :)-

Woodbury NJ
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What Fred said.

New Orleans LA
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I'm not like those other guys. I'm sorry the way those guys treated you. I would never do that. Single guys ruin it for the rest of us good ones. Blah, blah, blah, ect ect. Believe me the pity party or putting others down won't work. Meeting people and showing them who you are will speak volumes. I find it funny how single guys claim no success, but you can see by other posters single males can have success. Believe me if you want to separate yourself from the rest do it with actions not words.

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quack quack quack

Rockport MA
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I knew that honey ,your just ducky

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all will be well when you meet me :)

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@ BLT I agree , but there are those that need to learn that , age is a state of the mind , I would love to see some of these younger one's if they can get it up when they are 50 plus , I know a few whom need help in there 30's and 40's . HE He Ha Ha

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TOPIC: Why So Few Nice Single Men