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TOPIC: Why Is It That Older Women Do not Want to Be With A Younger Male
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When we first started swinging I could not even imagine having sex with someone in their 20's and younger than my children. That was a year ago and I now look at things differently.LOL I've been with men in their 30's and enjoyed it very much and I am now considering someone in their 20's. But he will really have to impress me with his maturity first.

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Will have to agree it's a little wierd thinking of sex with someone the age of your children. But more than that I'm puzzled as to why someone 25 years my junior is writing. Face it, middle age isn't kind to women and body image is a big deal these days, particularly to the 20-somethings. Can't compete with that!

But show me a 20 something guy with a respectful attitude (i.e. realizes swinging is recreational sex and not a one-upmanship with my husband), who genuinely enjoys women and more into being impressed by experience than impressing with youth (everybody was young once but not everybody improves with age and experience!) and I say bring him on!

Young 20-somethings intimidate with their youthful looks but often disappoint with their belief that youthful looks count for that much...

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I like younger guys a lot. The problem for me has been, they LIVE AT HOME WITH THEIR PARENTS. I could go play at someone else's house while DH was home with our kids, but anyone I was interested in locally didn't have his own place. I'm not going to pay for hotels all the time.

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i have been with several younger guys, i still see two on a fairly regular basis. both are in their early 20's. both have told me that the main attration is that i know what i want and take want i want. also both where very open in learning that it is not all about them and definitly not slam bam bam.

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Comming from a 29yr old here. I have always liked younger guys. It could be that wild bad boy side that I like or it could be the fact that I dont even feel my own age. I have also been with older men which I have enjoyed equally as much. All I know is it really depends on the person whatever age they maybe and how they make you feel. We like to hit the clubs alot and have seen 45yr old men acting more childish then a 20yr old man. So my advice on this one would be never judge a book by its cover. You maybe the one missing out on some really good times. And as a young couple in this lifestyle I'm sure we have been pre-judged just by our ages.

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Younger males tend to be more arrogant when it comes to sex, they believe they are there to do the wife a favor her husband is unable to, which, in most cases isn't true. When you deal people within your own age range, there tends to be more respect for each others wants & wishes.

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hese are wonderful replies, truly, and i feel the same, i have to be with people that know that paul mccartney is a beatle and not just wings.....i have to be with someone who actually knew what john kennedy looked like on t.v, not in a picture. my gosh, remember sex with a 20 something year old?? slam, bam , thank you mamm....no thanks, no more, and that is younger than my son in law. dear, you just need to hang out at the local bars and pick up a couple of girlfriends and go out with them, not to be on a swinger site. When i was in my 20's, it was no problem getting liaid by 2 or 3 guys a night....i wish you luck, but keep your money and buy a few drinks or go to a library, look studeous and you'll score big time

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As someone once said to us about younger men, "It's hard to have a meaningful conversation with someone who wasn't even born yet when the Beatles broke up!" LOL

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We can't speak for others, but in our case, Mrs. Valovers has two reasons for preferring men close to her own age. One, she has a son in his 30s, and it makes her feel incestuous to even think about being with a man that young. Second, like most women past the age of 50, she has no desire to be compared to women in their 20s.

'Nuff said.

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