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if we contact a couple, and ask them to meet us in a bar/restaurant we pay.
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I think it depends on the dominance dynamic. I tend to be the dominant one in all of our encounters. And assuming that role, I always pay if we are all together.
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As far dinner and drinks I think dutch is the right way to go, now if you connect and decide to get a motel I think the single guy should pay. By the way we don't contact them they contact us.
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We are very capable of paying for dinner, drinks, hotel, and activities on any given date but honestly there is something so sexy about a man who doesn't hesitate to buy drinks and dinner. There is a time and place for frugality and it shouldn't make an appearance during a date.
Having said all this, if and when we do meet an SM, we would expect to pay for our drinks and, most of his. Of course this is all assuming that the SM is respectful. If there's a connection and we opt for a hotel room, then we would pay for that too, unless the guy is independently wealthy and could care less about spending his money. |
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"Even if I was tempted to meet someone with those expectations It wouldn't be a 50/50 split."
We don't meet single guys, but if we did, he would only pay for what he ordered, just like if we met a vanilla friend, or a vanilla friend couple. We pay for what we ordered, they, or the person pays for what they ordered. I think that is fair. |
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If you have to pull out a calculator, the night propbably isn't going to go well.
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Youngstown OH |
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When I played as a single guy, I would usually pay for everything. Now as a couple, its pretty much the same, we pay. It just seems easier to me. No hassles and there are no expectations to or from the single we are playing with.
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There are couples and single females who expect a single guy to pay the freight for something that probably won't happen, easy to get a free meal at an upscale eatery. Even if I was tempted to meet someone with those expectations It wouldn't be a 50/50 split. You go out with a couple and it's 2 of them to one of you....no it's separate checks for the meals and drinks and I'm only paying a third(my share) of the room.
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Depends how you look at this type of social interaction.
My opinion is that if you reach the point where you start thinking about who pays what, you may be better doing something else. In the other words if pressure starts already with money, at the beginning, that is probably not ideal situation .... I tend to cover cost of the evening for everyone including hotel and i won't think twice about it, but people are different ... |
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