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You're pretty awesome Peghey.

But let's be frank - women still expect us guys to totally kiss their ass in this kind of thing. Some of them have become quite adept at working both sides of this to their advantage - being treated like helpless little princesses when it suits them but then demanding to be treated as equals when it suits them.

Let me ask you this:

Think of commercials where one half of a couple is clearly the idiot who can't figure out how to work a product or whatever and the other is there to save the day. Can you think of even one example where the male is *not* the helpless doofus and the woman is?

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1920 called and it wants its vote back - WTF?

We as women expect equal rights and equal pay and still expect the man to pay for everything because he is the man. I cannot believe how many self -proclaimed "feminists" believe this crap.

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When I'm travelling on the road, my room is already paid for, so it's not an issue. But when I'm back home, if a SF wants to play at a hotel I'll pay. I haven't played with a couple back home yet, so it hasn't come up.

But expecting a SM to pay? It's one thing if I volunteer to do it, but expecting me to pay is a be presumptuous. I'm not the only one playing, so I think it's a bit rude to automatically assume that I should be the only one paying.

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This male is having fun later with me.My Husband should not have to pay for nothing.....

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With that being said, what part does your husband, as a man, play? Based on your reasoning, wouldn't he also be responsible for paying?

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He is the male and where I come from the male pays for dinner and drinks

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Can you clarify why you believe it is the right thing to do?

Not being ugly here I am genuinely curious as to your reasoning.

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Its the right thing to do

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The single male should pay for dinner ,drinks and the room

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When i meet a couple for the first time. I pick yp the dinner check. If they have a place to host (at home) great if not well we have to figure that out

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