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Some couples look at it like this:

Youre getting to fuck the wife. Thats our contribution. You got picked out of dozens of others. The least you could do is make the accommodations.

Kind of like if you were a single guy meeting a single woman. Wouldn't you pay for dinner and a room?

I can see where they are coming from. But in my opinion its more of a nice gesture, I would never DEMAND it.

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i say split the room.........and everything is dutch treat

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Welcome lutzcouple.

So are you saying the SM should pay for everything or split all costs?

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From the one pic I can see, Ms. Lutz should have no doubts about her desireability.

Welcome to the forums; hope you enjoy yourselves.

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If we set something up and the guy expects us to pay for everything(dinner, drinks, etc) he's gonna have to jack off when he gets home. The Ms. wants to know she is desired and not by some cheap ass fool.

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cincy........show us the ratty shirt and boy shorts will ya :)

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As a solo male, I feel it's a 50-50 'proposition' when it comes to paying for the room LOL As for drinks and dinner we pay our own tabs and by then the 3 of us know if we want to get a room or not, at which time we will all enthusiastically split the cost of a room together for after dinner fun...or we will part for the evening.. It's like a hot date for the couple and the single and that's one of the things that made the idea exciting enough to meet in the 1st place, is it not?

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I will ask regarding the sharing of costs for a room and drinks, etc, but if a couple expects me to pay everything, I decline the date. If I'm expected to pick up the tab, her husband is not invited.

I have occasionally played when I travel, but the room is expensed anyway, so there are no costs to share, other than I usually will have a bottle of wine in the room.

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We host at home or, if using a hotel, pay for the room. For J, it may be a bit of a control issue. He likes his own space and does not like to put himself at the mercy of someone else's whim. This is what makes him a reluctant houseguest, too.

For me it is comfort and habit. I like to be physically comfortable before, during and after an encounter and having access to my own things is the key to this. So we get the room and use it as our own space to which we invite a single but this quirk has nothing whatsoever to do with money and everything to do with me wanting a ratty sweatshirt and boy shorts from my suitcase IMMEDIATELY.

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Since I usually host in my home, this is rarely an issue. My comment was paraphrasing what was posted prior to my post. The bottom line is, money is never an issue, it is simply whatever everyone is comfortable with.

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