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MR HEAT - I make my playmates work hard enough to recoup the cost - it's a much better plan!

Fun_Ahoy - that's a wonderful response (or reaction).

Nashville TN
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UpscaleHotWife I wish there were more of you around in my area. Not because of your statement about who pays. Just because.

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UpscaleHotWife wish there were more of you around in California. I dont mind covering cost of room But in California i see many profiles state if you cant cover hotel & drink & dinner costs then we are not the right one for us. Ive read a few state if we dont cover those things we are considered to be cheap lol. Funny but thats the norm over here lol

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Actually, it's customary for the invited SM or SF to pay the couple's mortgage for the month.

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For MFM hubby and I pay for the room. In fact even when I am meeting one on one with a single guy I pay for the room. With MFM, hubby and I will be playing again immediately after the FWB leaves so we want the room to be ours if at all possible. With single guys I don't want them to worry about the cost of the room. My taste in hotels is a bit pricy and my FWB's should not have to pay for an expensive hotel just because it is my preference. I prefer my FWB's not spend any money on me. I don't want their money - I want their time and attention (lots of attention).

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I'm an old-fashioned guy. I buy drinks and dinner, and pay for the room. If a date (woman or couple) offers to split the cost, I'll decline, but if pressed, suggest that they cover it next time.

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I pay for room , the reason should the couple or single lady have a sudden problem they can leave ,and will make good use of the room. just one of my simple rules.

Bradford Canada
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For us it depends. For first time meeting with a single male, we tell them to pay for the room. For first time couples we split the bill. And for the ladies, we treat. Once we know you and have played with you for awhile sometimes we treat and pay for the room. Whether it be a couple or single. That is just us.


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I can host! You can just come to my house! Lol.

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"Fuck you in advance..." Aka, the preemptive Fuck You. Similar in strength to the Double Dog Dare and equally as effective.

As a SM, I will always pay or offer to pay. I'm not buying or assuming anything. I'm simply being gracious and polite. If I couldn't afford to pay, I'd stay home.

I've been in scenarios where the couple has insisted on paying and where fighting over a check or who's paying for a room would be considered impolite. In those situations, I take a deep breath and look for ways to show my gratitude to the female half of the couple later. I also assume that if things click, we'll get together again and I can pick up the next tab.

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