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For us if we are inviting a SM out for the evening. We pay for the hotel. We will make an evening of it and stay overnight. So why would we expect the SM to pay for the room. However, we are not going to pay for his drinks etc. He is a grown man. We may pay for a drink or two but only if we want too. There is no expectation to pay.

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When it comes to rooms we always get our own she likes to have her own space to get ready, freshen up, ect.. It may just be me but we are all just looking to go out and have a lot of fun...Guy chivalry isn't dead it never hurts to buy a round .... It just seams there is way to much emphasis on who pays for what..just go out have fun and forget about who pays for what...Just a note,, singles and couples if u don't have enough money to pay for the night on your own u should stay home and watch tv..

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NicAtNight, you are absolutely right. Besides, it is the single guy's room if he pays all. Just for the sake of dignity, share the cost.

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Welcome to the forum Tony_Nikki

I agree with you and feel that since ALL are enjoying the benefits (including the lady), why not split the cost? The idea that the woman is providing some "service" seems somewhat insulting to me.

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I do not see why the single gay should pay the room all by himself if the husband also joins the fun.

The most reasonable way is to split the cost. If the couple is financially better off and the single guy is younger with less financial resource, it would be nice for the couple to pay more.

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Some couples look at it like this:

Youre getting to fuck the wife. Thats our contribution. You got picked out of dozens of others. The least you could do is make the accommodations.

Kind of like if you were a single guy meeting a single woman. Wouldn't you pay for dinner and a room?

I can see where they are coming from. But in my opinion its more of a nice gesture, I would never DEMAND it.

Mount Juliet TN
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i say split the room.........and everything is dutch treat

Rockport MA
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Welcome lutzcouple.

So are you saying the SM should pay for everything or split all costs?

Youngstown OH
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From the one pic I can see, Ms. Lutz should have no doubts about her desireability.

Welcome to the forums; hope you enjoy yourselves.

Belle Chasse LA
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If we set something up and the guy expects us to pay for everything(dinner, drinks, etc) he's gonna have to jack off when he gets home. The Ms. wants to know she is desired and not by some cheap ass fool.

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