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Mickey, if your wife wanted to meet a single male, would you also pay for the room since she is getting something that she desires from the experience? Or would you feel the SM is "privileged" to be with her? If so, why isn't the SF privileged?

I am not picking on you, just pointing out the somewhat sexist approach to all of this. When swingers get together, hopefully EVERYONE is getting some enjoyment from it so to say certain people should pay for that privilege and not others is just silly. Most SF I know insist on sharing the cost of any meet as they do not want to feel they were "paid" for their "services".

That said, I still feel a sense of chivalry when taking out a single female and always pick up the check for dinner and/or hotel room. Yes it is a contradiction. So sue me!

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When we meet a cpl for play at the hotel, we split room cost only, If we have a female come meet us at the room I pay food drink and the room,Its the least I can do because me and the wife get plenty fun out of it,

Mickey.

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I'm always willing to at least help pay the total costs for the evening, however, more times than not, that effort is vetoed. I regularly slide an increase on the tip on the table, etc.

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with us, we have definately played in hotel rooms in the past. With us, like others have said...like last night, we usually hotel it regardless when we party out of town. So we have never halfsied unless they took the other bed in the room. We have never seen it as a deal breaker though. MFMs, ahhh we have no actual experience. If he were not staying the night, which I would not be comfortable with, we would pay.

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enigma322 if you want a mmf i will pay for the room anytime!

Hillsborough NJ
 
 
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So far, when it's been MFM, we've gotten the room and invited the SM to join us..he leaves after playtime and we have our room through the night (like a little staycation).

When we meet with another couple, we have split the bill most of the time. Other times we've alternated or one will pay for dinner while the other pays for the room.

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I have paid in the past . And did so willingly. For me.. being invited to join a couple is a privelige. So procuring a room to enjoy their company is a small token.

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The guberment should pay for the room... LOL

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I always offer to pay for the room but most couples insist on splitting the bill for the reason Sed mentioned.

My preference is to host in my home so we can use the full array of playroom accessories.

;^D

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Nothing is expected, there are no rules. People should communicate.

We do not let others pay for us, we split the bill and pay our share. I'm not exchanging sex for money. I'm not a prostitute.

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