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Is that to you bad M? That we ask single to pay the room? Just askin...

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If I ever feel like I am being asked to pay for the room or dinner or drinks just so I can have sex with a woman, I am out. I know it is splitting hairs and like I said, I offer to pay but if a guy actually said to me, "If you pay for the room, my wife will fuck you and if you don't, we will find someone else", I would have to pass.

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uh huh!

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Nick the difrence is that if any man is lucky enough to get with my wife,,Cuz when I tell you shes hot in bed Beleive me she is, So if he wants it he is going to pay the room,If he has a problem with that,,We just want meet him ,no loss at all to us,,The woman, Well I get to tag that ass also if you know what Im saying,So I have zero problem paying for all...Just the way we roll.

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Mickey, if your wife wanted to meet a single male, would you also pay for the room since she is getting something that she desires from the experience? Or would you feel the SM is "privileged" to be with her? If so, why isn't the SF privileged?

I am not picking on you, just pointing out the somewhat sexist approach to all of this. When swingers get together, hopefully EVERYONE is getting some enjoyment from it so to say certain people should pay for that privilege and not others is just silly. Most SF I know insist on sharing the cost of any meet as they do not want to feel they were "paid" for their "services".

That said, I still feel a sense of chivalry when taking out a single female and always pick up the check for dinner and/or hotel room. Yes it is a contradiction. So sue me!

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When we meet a cpl for play at the hotel, we split room cost only, If we have a female come meet us at the room I pay food drink and the room,Its the least I can do because me and the wife get plenty fun out of it,

Mickey.

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I'm always willing to at least help pay the total costs for the evening, however, more times than not, that effort is vetoed. I regularly slide an increase on the tip on the table, etc.

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with us, we have definately played in hotel rooms in the past. With us, like others have said...like last night, we usually hotel it regardless when we party out of town. So we have never halfsied unless they took the other bed in the room. We have never seen it as a deal breaker though. MFMs, ahhh we have no actual experience. If he were not staying the night, which I would not be comfortable with, we would pay.

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enigma322 if you want a mmf i will pay for the room anytime!

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So far, when it's been MFM, we've gotten the room and invited the SM to join us..he leaves after playtime and we have our room through the night (like a little staycation).

When we meet with another couple, we have split the bill most of the time. Other times we've alternated or one will pay for dinner while the other pays for the room.

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