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I'd stick by our original plan. We don't usually do the hotel thing. Liz and I LOVE to host, though we do go out as well. It's nice if someone brings a bottle of something to drink that evening, but it's not expected. Whenever we go somewhere. We bring something to drink that night, and a bottle of wine as a "thank you for hosting."

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Very well put fishing...2 thumbs up...5 stars reply ;)

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Ok I find this all kind of funny and I know I am going to catch alot of flak from my comments. I have read the comments about how the single guy should pay because of all the different reasons and so forth. I just wonder what happens if its a single female.. Do we throw womens rights out the door or do we treat her like we would a single male? Just food for thought because no one has mentioned this. For us we treat everyone the same be it couple,male, or female. The way we understand things is..if we invite you, you are our guest..if you invite us, we are your guest

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For us if we are inviting a SM out for the evening. We pay for the hotel. We will make an evening of it and stay overnight. So why would we expect the SM to pay for the room. However, we are not going to pay for his drinks etc. He is a grown man. We may pay for a drink or two but only if we want too. There is no expectation to pay.

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When it comes to rooms we always get our own she likes to have her own space to get ready, freshen up, ect.. It may just be me but we are all just looking to go out and have a lot of fun...Guy chivalry isn't dead it never hurts to buy a round .... It just seams there is way to much emphasis on who pays for what..just go out have fun and forget about who pays for what...Just a note,, singles and couples if u don't have enough money to pay for the night on your own u should stay home and watch tv..

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NicAtNight, you are absolutely right. Besides, it is the single guy's room if he pays all. Just for the sake of dignity, share the cost.

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Welcome to the forum Tony_Nikki

I agree with you and feel that since ALL are enjoying the benefits (including the lady), why not split the cost? The idea that the woman is providing some "service" seems somewhat insulting to me.

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I do not see why the single gay should pay the room all by himself if the husband also joins the fun.

The most reasonable way is to split the cost. If the couple is financially better off and the single guy is younger with less financial resource, it would be nice for the couple to pay more.

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Some couples look at it like this:

Youre getting to fuck the wife. Thats our contribution. You got picked out of dozens of others. The least you could do is make the accommodations.

Kind of like if you were a single guy meeting a single woman. Wouldn't you pay for dinner and a room?

I can see where they are coming from. But in my opinion its more of a nice gesture, I would never DEMAND it.

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i say split the room.........and everything is dutch treat

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